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Are you jealous?
 Hi folks, let me introduce myself. I am a 19 year old at school. I am totally addicted to Pinkvilla like many. I thought of sharing my views on this forum as i felt i could get honest feedback and suggestions. My problem: I am a very average looking girl. I am average at studies. Pretty average at everything except sports i guess. I have a neighbor and we grew up together. She is friggin gorgeous. Since childhood, we went to the same school, traveled together etc etc. It so happened that she had all the guys attention in school, in our neighborhood and pretty much everywhere. To top it she is good at studies too. I am ashamed to admit i am very jealous of her. Very very jealous. This makes me sometimes do wrong things like bitch about her behind her back. I know, i know its bad, but i do. Its all because of jealousy. My question is , do you girls ever feel jealous of other girls?. Is this normal and how do you girls deal with it?
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Don’t try to compare your life with her. Two people cannot have same life. Find something you are good at and focus on that. You will see there are lots of girls good looking or very good at something. It seems like you need another best friend or friend. You need to take your focus off her and on you. Always remember we choose our friends. Jealousy will only make you a bad person and you don’t seem like that girl. So in the end I will only tell you to make new friends. You will soon forget about her.
Awwwhh Jaanu...Your envious, which is ok...atleast your brave to admit it!!!!
You should be proud that your are able to recognize a flow, which makes your far more superior than anyone who isn't able too!!!
I am sure you are above average and I am sure alot girls will read your comment and think very highly of you...in order to control that emotion, you should turn that negative feeling into a positive one and see the good in that person and imbide their virtues!!
You are an individual, you have to be thankfull for what you have and try not to swell on what you don't have!!! Becuase one is able to achieve anything if they want it badly!!!
Lots of kisses
Laara
xx
People like u all u've already sold urself 2 bolly...wat more waste India can have...
Iamjealous-Actually jealousy is in human nature..its nice of you that you shared your feelings with us!!
yes sometimes i too feel jealous..yes its normal it can get worst if you don't handle your jealousy!! i find.. in your case its not normal(to b frank) she is your best friend!! you do almost everything together rite??
see you know its not the right! ur wasting your time and energy thinking about the wrong thing.!!.and even if you can't control ask urself is it rite?..because each and everytime when you become jealous your body is being affected..when you are jealous you become angry and backbite..
And find out some good points not negative points in you..always try to think positive :)
it seems like your honest see u have one huge good quality so dont waste ur mind for such things:))
Dnt worry it happens with almost many people, I too had such a time in my life, I used to feel inferior about it too, but as I grew older and found new friends I grew out of it, and due to my love for painting and other forms of art, I became very popular among my friends and in the college, every body knew me, then it was her turn to be jealous of me. Now when I look back at those days I feel foolish to have felt so insecure about such silly things. U said you are good in sports, divert all your attention that u are giving to this problem to your sports, and I promise you, soon u will be so popular that it will be she who will be jealous of you. Dnt bitch about her, it is not good. Never harm anybody knowingly, it is not her mistake that she is gorgeous and she is good in studies. You identify your talent and give improtance to that and then u will see that u wnt have time to think of these silly things. All the best for your SPORTS FUTURE friend. HOPE U GET ALL THE SUCCESS!!
dont be jealous, you are who you are. Comparing yourself to other ppl is the worst thing you can do because everybody has got their own speed in life. Beauty won´t last forever, the most important thing should be your attitude towards life.
You are wonderful the way you are, ofcoure sometimes we girls wish that we had different features like all the celebreties but not everybody finds them attractive.
I also tend to get jealous when I see other girls, but hey it´s fine, there are also other things in life that are important. Never ever compare yourself to somebody else, you are unique, there´s a reason why u look like you do. Everything is yours, your voice, your style, your clothes, just own it! Breathe through your skin, you are perfect the way you are.