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"Aishwarya is a very different woman!!!"- Shobhaa De blogs
Any woman who has gone through pregnancy and become a mother, will understand this perfectly: Having a baby is a life transforming experience that beats all other experiences put together. Unfortunately, it is also a shape-transforming experience. That is how nature intended it. When a woman decides to have a baby, she accepts the entire package – additional kilos included. Some women, like Victoria Beckham pop out their beautiful babies without the slightest alteration to their sleek silhouettes – lucky them. Others, take time and allow their bodies to shrink at a slower pace… without obsessing over the extra weight. They make the baby their top priority, nurse the infant, enjoy that marvelous, tender time together, without giving a damn about a double chin, or a few tyres around the waist. Those melt away later, once the new mother resumes her normal routine and starts a simple regimen to keep the newly acquired fat deposits at bay. It is generally a highly narcissistic new mum who chooses to make her own weight a priority above everything else – the baby’s well being included. Clearly, Aishwarya Rai is not that woman. And can we please get off her back and let her enjoy her little one without giving her grief each time she steps out of her home? Frankly, the spiteful and hostile comments to Aishwarya’s post-baby appearance have been so exaggerated one wonders why. Is it because our own idyll of perennial perfection and startling beauty has been somehow shattered? After all, Aishwarya is consistently referred to as ‘the most beautiful woman in the world’. There have been enough green-with-envy rivals who have spent sleepless nights trying to topple her from that throne. Ash was the lucky actress who had it all… including a fairytale marriage to a really sweet guy. Then came the baby news. All this was a bit too much for some to handle. Competitors had waited long years to find that chink in her Ash’s armour… something they could swoop down on. And they found it in – of all places – her weight! It is like a vicious , orchestrated campaign against a woman who generates a huge amount of jealousy just for looking the way she does. It gives plain looking ladies a vicarious thrill to see Ash in a less than flattering light right now. Her more enlightened sponsors are standing by her, though, insists her spokesperson. And they respect her right to enjoy motherhood minus pressure to fit into a single digit size gown. There’s more to life than that red carpet appearance… yes, even at Cannes. Ash realises as much. New mothers in urban society have it really hard these days. It is such a pity. We are being brainwashed into feverishly ‘getting into shape’, even before the baby is weaned. There are young mothers who refuse to breast feed their kids for fear of losing their curves and ‘sagging’! There are others who go so far as to say they don’t want to ‘spoil’ their figures by having a baby in the first place. The film industry imposes its own cruel diktats , making demands on mothers in the business to look like svelte and sexy ‘yummy mummies’ overnight… or else! Women are idiotically punishing themselves instead of enjoying motherhood for what it is – a time to make the most of those magical months when an innocent, entirely dependent new life thrives on and flowers with the mother’s unconditional love, attention and care. Ash has chosen to invest in her daughter, rather than hit the gym neurotically or starve herself to fit into those old jeans. It’s time to butt out of her life and leave her alone. Ash has her priorities in place – her mommie- time with the baby could well be the best decision of her life. Besides, the glow of motherhood is the best cosmetic in the world…. Because mother and baby are both ‘worth it’. Happy Mother’s Day! By Shobha De (Timesofindia)
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Having a baby is a life transforming experience that beats .. - Indian women excel at this art so no big deal even for ash.. bfing promotes wt loss. as for ash not loosing wt, it is a struggle for a middle class mom to find time to excercise between home, work and baby. Ash has all the help what is stopping her. stupid article.
Tue, 2012-07-31 09:33 — Anonymous
aishwarya is not that different woman now she is the bachchan bahu so who cares losing weight when she has already secured guaranteed her future by getting the bachchan surname in any way...
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I totally agree with you,she is a smart lady.
Tue, 2012-07-31 09:33 — Anonymous
aishwarya is not that different woman now she is the bachchan bahu so who cares losing weight when she has already secured guaranteed her future by getting the bachchan surname in any way...
Shobhaa sounds good for a change :)
@Anonymous
aishwarya is not that different woman now she is the bachchan bahu so who cares losing weight when she has already secured guaranteed her future by getting the bachchan surname in any way...
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are you mad!!!! don't know the happenings in B'wood !! the bachchans are secured having her as their bahu!! who would care the bachchcans if they married RANI OR KARISMA!!!!!
aishwarya is not that different woman now she is the bachchan bahu so who cares losing weight when she has already secured guaranteed her future by getting the bachchan surname in any way...
I dont like shobha de. bohot pakati hai.
modeling is very nice i like that...........
Aishwarya looks stunning in that picture
The question is not whether she is the best possible mom or not !!!!
Question is whether she should be forced to lose weight... and if she chooses no to, then curse he???
She is not doing any movies.. not seen in any new commercials .. she gave only few public appearances....
She simply doesn't want to waste too much time in gym rite now....
Is it not foolish for the 99.99999 % women to criticize her, when they can't look like her even when they r size zero... She is not the most famous women for Any silly reason... get some common sense ...
You can't bring her down... She will die popular... Ppl will remember her for many more centuries ....
She has nothing to prove any more... she is above all this mud...
Isn't it foolish for Indian media to criticize her weight & put India into bad light..
This article is to emphasis that Ash has the RIGHT to be world's MOST beautiful woman, even if she weighs one-ton.
It is her right.
Nabby H. Well dear it was actually a reply for the people who r saying that "if ash was this caring as a mother then she wouldn't have left her baby under nanny's care or at home in india and wouldn't have gone to Cannes all by herself". I was actually confirming the news with ignorant people here that ash is taking her baby along with her to the Cannes. I have read ur comments on other page as well where u have said that u cant expect busy moms like victoria and ash spending every minute on their baby, they need a breather too. I agree with u on that and not only because i am a fan of ash but i stand up for what i believe is right. As for nannies, its a very individual thing. Some will be good and some will be bad. Human beings don't come with a guarantee u see. They can bite u as well. LOL
Nabby H, I for one, can never leave my baby with a nanny. You can never trust them fully. BTW, Aishwarya is not taking along a nanny to look after baby.. she is taking her mother Vrinda Rai ji.
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Well it depends right? I for one, had an amazing nanny. She has been like a second grandma to me. You have to see the nanny, judge how they are and see how they are around the baby, and then make an informed decision. There are many people I know who's parents have had help and some of these "help" have been significant in these people's lives. Btw, where did you read that Aish is taking her mother along?
Every celebrity, heck almost every common woman gets help in one form or the other.
in fact it has been huge news not because of aishwarya rai but because of people s immature reactions to her so people s reaction making the news-not aish
and also if a mother is fat after pregnancy it doesnt mean baby is the priority and also if the mother is slim it doesnt mean baby is ignored -all these just personal choicee
just grow up and get matured
it is really cheapness of you to downgrade others while trying to glorify aishwarya
im sure were it any other celebrity instead of aishwarya, no one would be defending so passionately!! thi sis the drama of india people are obsessed with her
Nabby H, I for one, can never leave my baby with a nanny. You can never trust them fully. BTW, Aishwarya is not taking along a nanny to look after baby.. she is taking her mother Vrinda Rai ji.
to all those who think that she does not care about the baby.
Just shut up and keep ur opinion to urself, she is taking her baby along with her to the Cannes Film Festival. She is not leaving the baby to nanny''s care. Please read the news it must be there on websites. She is not going alone there.
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It doesn't matter if she takes her baby to Cannes or not. Leaving your baby to a nanny doesn't make you a bad mother. Are you guys the moral police? Everyone uses help. Yes, she is taking her baby to Cannes, meaning her baby will accompany her to France but the baby won't actually be with her during the red carpet walk and all the other festivities. She'll be at the hotel room, under nanny's care. I personally have been taken care of by a nanny as well and I must say, she was one of the sweetest people I have ever known in my life. Even after all these years, I visit her once a month at her home and we spend time watching tv, talking, having a meal together. Every mother needs help! You can't spend every min on your baby just because you're a mother. You need a breather, some rest. Otherwise, there's a nutcase in the making.
Honestly... you don't become obese by having a baby.. so many women in india just get a slight bump in the middle and are otherwise completely the same... and some, who eat extra or differently (for making baby fair, healthy, etc, etc..) gain max 10-13 kilo's and by the 3-4th month after delivery.. the body itself starts to get back in it's own shape.. not stay the same (even if you sit in front of the tv all day long).. breastfeeding doesn't make you like how Aish currently looks.. imagine how all the women in the world would look then!And i'm not even comparing her to other celebs.. i'm comparing her to normal indian women.. But who cares... the longer she stays that way.. the less we'll see her in movies.. so i'm happy :D
Every international newspaper/site in the world mentioned a quote of Shobhaa from this article. Finally, fame hungry De gets what she wanted, by using Aishwarya's name. Expect a lot more articles from her about Ash from now on.
OMG...All the international dailies news in ash's weight..did they a got a proper photograph of ash to write all the weight gain news?
Where on earth did Shobha de mention that Ash has been devoting her entire time to her baby ? this proves that her haters have really gone blind. LOL.
to all those who think that she does not care about the baby.
Just shut up and keep ur opinion to urself, she is taking her baby along with her to the Cannes Film Festival. She is not leaving the baby to nanny''s care. Please read the news it must be there on websites. She is not going alone there.
This article is full of crap. It's not about being thin, it's about being healthy. Aishwarya looks like she has actually gained more weight after giving birth. People need to stop making excuses for her. Exercising and eating healthy isn't neglecting your baby. Taking a brisk walk everyday while the baby is napping and feeding your body the right things doesn't mean you don't care about your baby's wellbeing. Staying active and eating right has its benefits - more energy, less stress, improves mood, lowers risk of health conditions, etc... For some women being active is a part of their lifestyle, so what's the point of criticizing women who continue to workout after giving birth? When did being healthy become a bad thing? But I must say, I really admire Aishwarya's confidence. Despite all of this ridiculous scrutinizing of her weight, she still does whatever she wants. She lives her life on her own terms.
ASH IS NOT DEVOTED, SHE IS JUST LAZY. ALSO, SOME ONE ALSO CLAIMED THAT IF SHE WAS REALLY DEVOTED THEN SHE WONT GO TO CANNES THIS YEAR LIKE HOW EVA LANGORIA NEVER WENT TO CANNES LAST YEAR. I AGREE.
One of those rarest moments when Shobha De makes sense!
every international news paper/channel/site
BBC news, ABC news, The guardian, The age, Yahoo canada german france uk us and The week uk...trending topic Aishwarya's weight ..my god
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Today Aish's weight problems were even mentioned in the newspapers in HOLLAND!!
Just google Aishwarya Rai Algemeen Dagblad
He has hardly made 3/4 public appearance in last 6 months... Plz spare the Beauty goddess...
She is paying the price of being most beautiful.
Her beauty have turned into curse for her...
Thank god she has a heavenly family...
ASH COME ON GAL!!!!!!!!! WE LUV U
every international news paper/channel/site
BBC news, ABC news, The guardian, The age, Yahoo canada german france uk us and The week uk...trending topic Aishwarya's weight ..my god
Needlees article, plz i am not jealous of Ash...so dont assume everyone is jealous of her.
Haters who are saying that Shobha De never speaks against Bachchans or Aishwarya need to get their facts straight, SD has always been negative about Aishwarya ... Go see and read her interviews about her, also on Koffee with Karan she has always criticised Aishwarya. I was actually shocked at this article that how can Shobha ever take Ash's side...
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This is for all the narrow-minded-douche-bags here, who can't look past the (plus size) weight thing, they need to look out in the real world, not everyone can stay size 0-8 all their lives... Changing body with time is normal & specially after childbirth... SO SHUT UP ABOUT IT & open your tiny brains... Hollywood is filled with good-looking plus sized women & shockingly they are not half as small-minded as most people here, also they don't make such a big deal about it, they do red carpet events all the time (big size or not). They don't obsess over this like every other Indian (hater) is obsessing over Aishwarya's weight, thats why they are FAR FAR a head of indian industry. As I have said this before, haters just want to pick on every little thing they can find out about ASH or even make up stuff against her.