Boney Kapoor's ex-wife Mona Kapoor passes away

ENOUGH OF THIS SRIDEVI BASHING WITHOUT KNOWING TE TRUTH. u have to hear ALAL versions before being a JUDGE.
did u ever heard BONEY TALK OF MONA role in their failed relationship??

i am not blaming MONA but a wife has an equal role in afiled relationship ..why always blame the OTEHR WOMAN

even if sridevi did'nt exists it might have been some xxxxx to whom boney would go for because he wsa not happy with mona.

mona herself reconciled and she said SHE HAS 4 OR 5 RELATIONSHIPS NAD DID'NT MISS A MAN.if monaji could reconcile with what happened then why u guys could'nt reconcile.

see THIS ARTICLE POSTED IN NET AFTER MONA DIED AND GET A LIFE INSTEAD OF SREE BASHING

am not writing this blogspot as a journalist but as a friend and well wisher of Mona Kapoor, mother of Arjun and Anshula Kapoor to me and first wife of film producer, Boney Kapoor, to the world. Mona passed away on March 25, 2012, after having fought a very brave and dignified battle with cancer.

Earlier in the day, Anshula and Arjun sent out messages asking for o+ blood for Mona's surgery next day. That was not to be. With her death, I lost a maternal figure in my life, a lady who in last one year had grown to be my confidante on matters of heart- where my family and life in general was concerned. I also lost a dear friend who always had a good thing to say about everyone- even her detractors.

We got introduced to each other last year through Twitter and quickly became a part of each other's lives through social media and later through the wonder called BBM. Day in day out, Mona would react to my status updates, enquire if I was doing well. If she felt I was low, she would send hugs and prayers. At times, if I didn't respond to her BBM having read it, she would promptly call and wouldn't rest till she knew all was ok with me. Her logic was very simple. I was someone's son and living alone in Mumbai. I was almost her son's age and so she had all the reasons to keep a tab about me and my safety.

I remember once I fell terribly sick and Mona didn't rest till she sent soup at my place. Later she called to say that she would start sending me home cooked food as well. I had to convince her with great effort that I will get fine. She said, 'Be careful about your health. Your Mom is alone back home. How would she feel if she came to know you are sick.'

The last I saw Mona was at her birthday party that Shabana Azmi and Javed Akhtar hosted. Her close friends had turned up in full force to wish her. Some of us sang and danced for her. As everyone clicked photographs with Mona, I felt she was going to be just fine after all, there was no much love around her. While leaving, as I said, till your next birthday Mona ji, she just looked up and said, 'Inshallah Beta ji'. On seeing her mother's wry smile, she just looked at her and smiled.

Three days before her birthday, Mona surprised me by sending a birthday cake at my residence. She later called and said, 'I wanted to come and surprise you but my health is such. My prayers and love is always with you'. No one had ever done anything like that for me on any of my previous birthdays. Mona knew how to make you feel special and nurtured.

We bonded often over our late night BBM conversations. < One such time, we got talking about our family lives and struggles. As she narrated the sequence of events that led to her and Boney's separation, I realised, she felt no bitterness either towards him or Boney's current wife, actress Sridevi. She rounded off the conversation saying, 'Sri loved him and Boney and I had fallen out.One must stay with the loved one only. Else it is all useless>
.' I am not sure if this is how she felt when, she said, she went down fighting. But the fact that she reconciled, moved on and found her own happiness with work ( She was the CEO of Future Studios) and later her kids, was one of the biggest successes of Mona's life.

Recently, when Amitabh Bachchan kept tweeting from the hospital, Mona messaged saying, that she felt he should not tweet so much, 'Nazar Lagti Hai'. Amitabh developed complications post his surgery and Mona while talking on something entirely different said, ' 'Beta ji, see Amit ji is not well now.We must pray for him na?'.

A few weeks back, when I last spoke with Mona, she casually said, 'I don't want to have a long life. I just want to see Anshula's graduation and see the release of Arjun's debut film, Ishaqzaade. That's all. After that, if God wants me back quickly, I'll run towards him.' Mona didn't live to see either in the physical world, but I am sure, she will be watching and ensuring that her kids find their share of happiness around.

When Mona got admitted in the hospital following complications, I texted her to check if I could come and see her. She stopped me saying,' I will be back soon beta and when I am back, you, Bharathi (senior journalist Bharathi Pradhan and Mona's close friend) and I will do lunch.' Mona, the lunch is still on you. Till we meet again

SREE BASHERS PLEASE READ THE BELOW PARAGRAPH 100 TIMES AND GET A LIFE

< One such time, we got talking about our family lives and struggles. As she narrated the sequence of events that led to her and Boney's separation, I realised, she felt no bitterness either towards him or Boney's current wife, actress Sridevi. She rounded off the conversation saying, 'Sri loved him and Boney and I had fallen out.One must stay with the loved one only. Else it is all useless>

Mona is really brave. Life is really not fair. Everybody knows what I mean

Sridevi is not the first woman who married a married guy but she is surely one of the most SHAMELESS of all, she stayed in mona's house as guest, tied rakhee to boney and gifted mona a saree and manglesutra. I dont think the other 'home breakers' like hema malini or vyjanthimala have stooped this low.

Sridevi's karma will follow her, she has two daughters, what if her daughters suffered like this? some things never heal, i dont think Mona ever recovered from this, she kept on going with her life, raised her kids, built a studio..even had other relationships, but i still think its not easy to recover from such betrayal.

if sri really did wrong her karma will be there but mona died so u cant judge who is wrong or right based on mona interview u have to hear both versions god knows both versions and will give his decision .

The moron who said this will happen to you if u are a man or woman. If u say evil things like that, better hope it doesnt happen to you too. Mon, 2012-03-26 14:35 — Anonymous. The other person was just giving his/her opinion. BACK OFF!

Mon, 2012-03-26 14:35 — Anonymous
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Mon, 2012-03-26 12:05 — Anonymous

I think its unfair to drag Sridevi's name into here, especially because its been 15 YEARS since Sridevi and Boney are married. RIP Mona Kapoor.
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UNFAIR???? if you are a woman i hope your husband does the same thing to you. and then see 15years later if you feel any less hurt that your husband not only slept with another woman, but made her pregnant and left you. if you are a man, then i hope your daughter has her husband do the same thing to her, after all she will heal in 15years.

Rani, the Nokrani, its time for u to wake up, you didn't even let Payal to have a chance in having her own kids, how do u wake up in the morning, and knowing what you did, can live with it.
Atleast Mona ji had two wonderful kids, and she could spend the rest of her short life being with her kids.

People who are defending monster devi should be ashamed of themselves.
May Mona ji, the real beauty rest in peace

people are crazy really. sridevi did not kill her. if anyone killed her (if cancer is caused by people's betrayal) it's boney kapoor. if i had to put a number on who deserves blame boney 60% sridevi 40%. but in no way sri fans should say why blame sri! of course people will blame her!

RIP Monajee. Come on guys its been 15 years since Boney and Sridevi are married. Its NOT like Sridevi is the first woman who has married a married man! Its unfair to say Sridevi killed her...nobody did, its just her destiny.

I think its unfair to drag Sridevi's name into here, especially because its been 15 YEARS since Sridevi and Boney are married. RIP Mona Kapoor.

Mon, 2012-03-26 09:56 — Anonymous

people who are blaming and dragging Sridevi into this,you must be ASHAMED of yourself.

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Mr. or Miss.. are u sridevi herself? or boney himself?

What they did was disgusting.. and you are equally disgusting for supporting them..

on, 2012-03-26 06:45 — Fiza_Khan

May Allah Bless her soul and her family.....Arjun will be our next super star - Insha Allah :)

I am really upset with the opinions over here :) not bcoz I am a sreedevi fan, I only admire her as an actress. But I am really upset to see that how people always blame "women," what you should understand is that the man is more evil in this case than the woman. It was him, who left his wife, broke her trust and didn't care for her. It was him, who didn't care for his children and was not loyal. It was him who made Sridevi pregnant, thus Sridevi had to marry him for the sake of the society and for her child.
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women who fall for married man are equally evil...sridevi had to marry him for the sake of society and her child but for what "sake" she slept with him??? there are alot of times when men manipulate woman saying that their married life is not good,just to win the attention,their wives back home giving their attention to the marriage and stay loyal to their husbands and kids doesn't even know what their husbands are doing behind their back...Sridevi was an adult,why did she married a man who cheated his wife and kids...I would never ever marry a man like this..and I can never be a fan of a woman who has such a low choice!

Sridevi is not an innocent person, she used to live in boney's house as a guest when boney was married to mona. she gifted mona a saree and manglesutra. Sridevi was involved with Mithun too at one point. Infact sridevi used to tie rakhee to Boney when he was married to mona.

Love cant be controlled, but the way these two behaved is shameless. Mona got hurt too badly. Sridevi got pregnant with her husband's child when she was still married to boney. Its not easy for any woman to bear this kind of trauma. Moreoever Boney would flaunt his new family in filmi events.

why blame sreedevi ji .it was boney who should be more ersponsible with 2 kids.boney told on DUS KA DUM PROGRAM WITH SALMAN that it was he who pursued sreedevi for 10 years before he married her.obviously by his own words one can easily guess he made sreedevi pregnant and sreedevi had to marry this fatty because of her yet to born child.
when sreedevi was emotionally upset with dad died and mom cancer and mom resurgery and sister cheating her she felt emotionally weak and THIS MARRIED GUY TOOK ADVANTAGE OF HER after pursuing her for 10 years he thought this was the right time to take adv of sri i.e sri was in an imblanced state with her mom surgery gone wrong sister cheating her etc etc

as u guys think she never had an affair with boney when she stayed few months i.e 4 or 5 months with boney family .she stayed with them in mid of 1991.when her dad dies she felt emotionally bad and when boney afther asked to stay with them she stayed. SREE TOLD MANY TIMES SHE FELTI EMOTIONALLY OBLIGED TO THEM FOR THEIR GRACIOUS ACT ..iafter that boney used that obligation and gort close with her in mid of 1995 when sree mom surgery gone wrong and sister cheated

I don't understand that people are dragging Sreedevi in this,maybe Boney was not happy with mona and hence got seperated.Boney Kapoor is enough concerned about his four children,Jhanvi,Khushi,Arjun,Anshula and always mentions that he has got four children and even Sreedevi also says that Arjun and Anshula are her children also,so why critisize her.Atleast Sreedevi has saved Boney's life by marrying him otherwise he would'nt have been happy anyday.RIP Monaji.