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Life is good without a man: Preity Zinta
In a long interview where she spoke of how she was enjoying being single again, Preity also spoke about her best friend in the industry, her new book, being a producer, and her experience of working with one-movie old Director Prem and debutant male lead Rhehan in Ishkq in Paris. She praised Prem’s impressive energy levels when working on a medium sized budget while Rhehan got praised for his eagerness to learn and for losing flab to get fit for the role. Turning Producer for the first time with Ishkq in Paris, Preity said actors have it easy and that being a producer is a tough and thankless job. ‘All big stars are my friends’, she told Daily Bhaskar and said Salman never left her a chance to ask her other friends to appear in her film. She identified Aishwarya as her best friend in the industry. Speaking about her newly found independence after a long relationship with Ness Wadia, she said it was good not to have a man in her life. Preity said she was enjoying the independence and was sure right things would come at the right time. She also said she never feared doing what she wanted to and never listened to naysayers. Speaking about the next-gen actors, she spoke highly of Ranbir Kapoor and called him Superstar material. Ishkq in Paris, a romcom set in Paris, is set to be released on November 2
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It is good to be free but as she said life is good without men i don't think so because i feel that everyone' needs a lifepartner who takecare of you love you and without men you can not creat your own family but give your hart to men who loves you a true love
I think it takes courage, guts and immense strength to look inward and find happiness with oneself regardless of gender. Also there are many people in relationships who are incompatible or have vicious fights and they feel more lonely than those individuals who are single and alone. There is a big difference between being lonely and being alone.
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very well said.
Married people desperately try to convince themselves that they are in 'marital bliss'. They find it hard to believe people outside marriage can be truly blissful.
People find it tough to find one man in a lifetime. Our Zinta babe has had a long list to her credit - Lars, Marc, Ness, Vikram Chatwal , Brett,Yuvraj, Saif etc etc - that's more than a sixer. Let's take stock - Lars, Marc, Ness Wadia have moved on years back, are NOT available and have closed their doors on her years permenantly. Vikram is not interested in her or any woman beyond a week. When Saif was available Preity gave a pass, now when its too late she may be regretting. That leaves only Brett and Yuvi. Preity's showbiz life won't work with sane and simple Brett and his son won't work for Preity who does not have the heart to mother his son cause at 40 she still plays teenage roles unlike Kareena who is 30 and is fine mothering 2 kids. Preity Zinta's public linkup with Yuvraj Singh and their exceptional chemistry made national news but she did not marry him? Why? She loved him didn't she that is why she had an affair with him or did she have an affair without loving him? As for other guys with serious marriage intentions - if she continues associating in IPL with an ex bf who cant stand her which other eligible guy is ever going to approach her? Wonder why her family does not help her see this through.
I think what she said doesn't believe. Said just for dialogue. If she is happy without man then linking men after break up and why all this botox- sugary ? If u don't wanna attract men then just be with your own.
I don't see where she has said this in the article.
I think it takes courage, guts and immense strength to look inward and find happiness with oneself regardless of gender. Also there are many people in relationships who are incompatible or have vicious fights and they feel more lonely than those individuals who are single and alone. There is a big difference between being lonely and being alone.
Mon, 2012-09-24 15:44 — Anonymous
There is no greater joy than the independence one gets after a failed relationship. You get opportunity to discover yourself and set yourself free. Girls who get married and settle in so called fake 'marital bliss' will never understand what it means. also, the society has labelled a woman without a man as a 'lonely, unhappy, woman'. It need not be so. This is my personal experience. :)
great comment, i totally agree :)
i want her and ness back together. they made a really nice couple and preity was at her peak then, all glamourous and glowing. now she looks sad, lonely and washed out. pls get back with ness, PZ!
LOL so many housewives commenting. Nothing beats the joy of marriage ? Some people have yet to live by the sounds of it, a spouse ought to complement you, not complete you. If you can't exist without someone you've failed yourself to highest degree. The joy of hard work, of time, of introspection and of leisure are joys in themselves. Being barefoot and pregnant isn't a woman's sole purpose. When a girl says she's single and loving it she isn't lying she's telling the society and its ridiculous norms that she doesn't need them to dictate her life. More power to Preity ! And I hope IIP is successful or at least gets some critical acclaim, it looks a little bit like a small "indie" kind of film, quite reflective of its producer. All the best to her !
Mon, 2012-09-24 15:39 — Anonymous
newlyfound independence? i thot she and ness broke up ages ago?
btw how can she be happy without a man when she is almost 38...i mean u can be happy without
a man in your twenties, but when you're pushing 40, if you wanna have babies and settle down, you really shd NOT be happy without a man
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wow!!! you seem to be so calculative in this life. Maybe you have come onto this planet only to make babies with your man.
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I love you for that comment. I feel that a large percentage of women population judges itself by its effect on men (and making babies is one part of it). I would like the Anonymous person who made the comment about how she should not be happy in life have a deeper look in their own lives. Seriously, how many kids you have is really only YOUR business & nobody cares.
Listen, Preity Zinta is an Aquarius, the sign of independence. And the sign that is very hard to understand because it is ruled by Uranus. Only Preity knows herself so leave her alone. Everybody get off her back.
Preity is so misunderstood. I wish people can try to understand her life and the person who she really is and not come to their own conclusion about her. Everybody is different, the accept life differently, and Preity Zinta is one of them. I am so glad Madhur Bhandarkar film HEROINE flop because he took advantage of Preity and base most of the story of Heroine on Preity Zinta's life. That's not Not Right!. Burn HEROINE! Go to Hell Madhur Bhandarkar.
Mon, 2012-09-24 15:44 — Anonymous
There is no greater joy than the independence one gets after a failed relationship. You get opportunity to discover yourself and set yourself free. Girls who get married and settle in so called fake 'marital bliss' will never understand what it means. also, the society has labelled a woman without a man as a 'lonely, unhappy, woman'. It need not be so. This is my personal experience. :)
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Very Well Said.
She did break up with him a while ago, she probably recently stopped crying about him. Whenever a girl says she likes being single, she is totally lying.
really.. in a relationship, especially in India, too much is expected from a woman. You are under pressure all the time and are judged constantly on your Cooking skills, Motherly skills, beauty/color, housekeeping skills, how much you earn etc.,
The 'love' you are looking far is like a mustard in a haystack. Forget Love, if you get a little appreciation for the amount of effort and energy you put into the family, that's a very big deal!
Movies glamorize the love life and love between a couple..singing, dancing and what not. Real life is real hard work. Only if you dissolve your desires and lose yourself in the relationship, then you are a successful wife/girl friend.
Well up to a certain point that may be. At the back of your mind seeing other friends etc married does eventually get to. You can tell yourself as much as you like your fine, loving being independent and all. You can't beat that feeling of being in a secure marriage, sharing your life with with someone special. She just hasn't found her match as yet, when she does then she'll change her tune.
Mon, 2012-09-24 15:44 — Anonymous
sweetie , you are missing out life big time :)
True....u don't need a man to be happy...
There is no greater joy than the independence one gets after a failed relationship. You get opportunity to discover yourself and set yourself free. Girls who get married and settle in so called fake 'marital bliss' will never understand what it means. also, the society has labelled a woman without a man as a 'lonely, unhappy, woman'. It need not be so. This is my personal experience. :)
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newlyfound independence? i thot she and ness broke up ages ago?
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Well, no one really interviewed/asked her about how she felt about that. so . yeah
newlyfound independence? i thot she and ness broke up ages ago?
btw how can she be happy without a man when she is almost 38...i mean u can be happy without
a man in your twenties, but when you're pushing 40, if you wanna have babies and settle down, you really shd NOT be happy without a man
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wow!!! you seem to be so calculative in this life. Maybe you have come onto this planet only to make babies with your man.
In life there is a price for everything and for alot of women who want to be successful it takes a toll on their personal life as they have to spend so much time working. That is what Priety Zinta means as when you have a man in your life he has to be the focus of your attention and plus when you have his children it is even more difficult to do things independently. You can't have everything in life if you want a quality life.
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newlyfound independence? i thot she and ness broke up ages ago?
btw how can she be happy without a man when she is almost 38...i mean u can be happy without
a man in your twenties, but when you're pushing 40, if you wanna have babies and settle down, you really shd NOT be happy without a man
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I disagree... life can be good even without a man .. everyone does not have to follow societal norms or conventions ..whatever makes u happy !
She's right,
newlyfound independence? i thot she and ness broke up ages ago?
btw how can she be happy without a man when she is almost 38...i mean u can be happy without
a man in your twenties, but when you're pushing 40, if you wanna have babies and settle down, you really shd NOT be happy without a man
The head line is good! 'Really' life without a man feels like college days or a childhood days when you felt free and loved. A healthy partner can let you be yourself and feel loved. Unfortunately there are not many men out there who think a woman/girl friend/wife is not just a person to serve them all the time and the woman is the one who gives up her dreams all the time.
I have seen many girls who put themselves as the last priority and make sure the man in the house gets pampered and has everything necessary ready for him to face the world, career, family, friends etc.,
Double standard. She sounds like grapes are sour.
she looks good and natural again, very pretty, like in her kal ho na ho days.
Its good to know that she and aishwarya are friends! And funny how she is also friends with Salman. that's fantastic. I hope Preity is able to be back on track, I don't think this ishkq is going to work out, but I hope she is able to be back soon with a bang.