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This article is written by Aakar Patel who is a director with Hill Road Media. It's quite long but really interesting..so read it and share your thoughts.
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The name Khan advertises its Afghan ancestry, but none of Bollywood's Khans looks Pa- shtun and all are quite short. A few years ago the newspaper I then worked for measured the popularity of the three Khans. Who had most fans, most charisma?

It learnt this by asking the post office who got most mail. The man who got twice as many letters and parcels as the other two was Salman Khan. This did not surprise us because a demonstration of his popularity is found outside his house in Bandra every day. I often took a walk down that road, called Bandstand. Salman's flat in Galaxy Apartments is at the beginning of the road as it sweeps left for the ruins of a Portuguese fort. Towards the end of the same road is the faade of Mannat, Shah Rukh Khan's bungalow. There is almost never a crowd here. Its high walls discourage the onlooker.

In contrast, there is always a group and often a crowd on the road opposite Salman's flat. Their patience is frequently rewarded by the sight of Salman cycling out, or some other Khan family member who strolls out to the terrace-balcony. The Salman crowd is often dotted by young Muslim men in their caps. His charisma is raw, and I am always curious to know something about the real men behind our stars.

Few know where Aamir Khan's house in Bandra is, and he likes it so. He carries with him few trappings of his stardom.

I once saw him being driven down Pali Hill, sitting in the front of a Maruti 800 with his wife Kiran Rao in the back.

Aamir is the thinking man's hero in India. Who else to breathe life into Chetan Bhagat's writing?

In the last 10 years, he has played hero in only six movies. Shah Rukh has had 17 releases in this time and Salman a remarkable 27.

This reflects their positioning as discerning man's hero, slightly less choosy middle-class hero and indiscriminate mass hero. This positioning has come out of their personalities, and is therefore accurate.
Family brands that do cars, pens and biscuits go to Shah Rukh to get themselves endorsed. Dollar banian (vest) and Dixcy Scott banian are Salman's domain. Coca-Cola got earnest Aamir to approve their bottling plants after reports of contamination with pesticide. He looks the part in doing such things.

But when Aamir tried his hand at real activism by supporting those displaced by dams on the Narmada, it brought trouble. He hadn't known how strongly Gujaratis felt about this and did not anticipate their boycott of his movie Fanaa. He has since dropped the issue.

Because his serious side lacks depth and commitment, Aamir is boring to write about. There isn't much to say because the quality expected of a thinker is missing. It's unfair to expect a Bollywood star to be profound, but that's the image he has put out.

The most interesting, most charismatic of the Khans is Salman.

At one party a couple of years ago, he sat with his glass for the entire night on his toilet's pot, inviting guests to visit him there.

In 2003, Salman was on Vijay Mallya's yacht the Indian Princess for the Kingfisher calendar launch. I observed him, and noticed that he had repose, like Dick Diver in Fitzgerald's Tender is the Night. He was wearing a white shirt and jeans, and held a glass of vodka. At one point he reached for a cigarette. Seeking to free his hand and light it, he casually slipped the glass into the hip pocket of his jeans in one motion. It was the sort of thing a star might do in a movie.

He can also be funny. When a reporter asked him where he had picked up his accent from, Salman replied: "From sleeping with so many foreign chicks." He used another word for sleeping with.

Sitting once with a group of chamchas, he flipped through a film magazine.
He classified the heroines on its pages, stabbing his finger at their photographs: "Iski li, iski li, iski li (I've done her, and her, and her)." And then, stopping at an ageing actress, "iski nahin li (Not her)", to laughter.

On Saturday, 28 September 2002, Salman was drinking at a nightclub in Juhu called Rain. He then drove down St Andrew's Road in Bandra, and did not turn where the road hit a dead end next to the lane I lived. His Land Cruiser crashed into the workers of A1 Bakery, sleeping on the steps of a shop. He killed one man, Noorulla Sharif, and wounded or crippled four.

Salman, ever the hero, ran away, leaving those migrants bleeding and dying. They testified to seeing him get down from the driver's seat. He surrendered 8 hours later, still with 62 mg of alcohol in his blood.

His police guard, constable Ravindra Patil, was blamed by Salman for driving. Patil lost his job and was disowned by his family. A newspaper published a photograph of him sitting on the floor of a bare room, skeletal from tuberculosis he had no money to treat. He died alone and bankrupt, at the age of 30 in 2007.

This had no effect on Salman's popularity, and in fact his best period was ahead of him.

In a civilized nation, his audience would be repelled as Americans were with Errol Flynn after he was accused of statutory rape. Fortunately he's popular in a culture with low morality and he can laugh off his behaviour. His charisma is intact.

Asked by The Times of India in 2007 why he had so few endorsements, he said he didn't get them: "Arre, milte nahin hain endorsements.
Karna kaun nahin chahta (I don't get endorsements ...who would not want to do them)?" His explanation was that the cases against him put advertisers off, but that's wrong. Nobody cares about that. It's his image as a mass--that is, lower class--star.

Jailed for poaching, Salman appeared in court wearing a skull cap. He claimed this was not for sympathy, but it's hard to dismiss the feeling that it was. He's almost never seen in one otherwise and the Khan family prides itself on its pluralist traditions.

All three Khans are inclusive and none particularly devout. Shah Rukh and Aamir are married to Hindus.

Shah Rukh's charisma is enigmatic in the sense that the inner man is hidden.
He engages fans and the media easily, and enjoys, or says he does, the burden of celebrity.

SMS jokes refer to his flirting with homosexuality, but that does not ring true. He shows little sign of being effeminate.

When he clashed with Salman at a party (over the pressing question of who was the better game show host) he did not back down when Salman threatened to use his fists on him. Shah Rukh turned menacing: "Tu kya marega? Tu haath toh utha, main maroonga tujhe. Woh bhi teri party main, aur tere doston ke saamne," he snarled. Salman, for all his musculature, kept sitting. I read somewhere that Shah Rukh refers to himself as a Dilli ka goonda, and though he doesn't look it, perhaps he is.

The most charismatic of our stars ever, and the most fascinating to observe is Amitabh Bachchan.

On his blog Bachchan often complains about the media. In his movies he was angry, in life he is sulky.
That this man, so adored by India for 40 years, can be resentful about a little criticism in an otherwise fawning media, reveals a disturbing insecurity.

In the 2009 elections, the Bachchans voted together and then came to face the media.

In a choreographed moment, the family showed off their voting mark by flipping their middle fingers at those filming and photographing them. Doing this into camera lenses meant their audience and fans would also receive this gesture. This does not seem to have occurred to the Bachchans.

In India, something read aloud in a grave manner will pass as literature.
This is true for Atal Bihari Vajpayee's and Narendra Modi's poems and it is true for Harivansh Rai Bachchan's most famous work.

Those who brave their way through Madhushala's clichs will be struck by how vapid it actually is. My copy has an introductory essay by "Manoranjan", former professor of Banaras Hindu University. The essay is embarrassingly shallow.

One evening, a couple of years ago, I attended a show at the Bandra Fort.
Pakistan's Zia Mohyeddin was reciting from Faiz and Bachchan was reciting, or rather singing, from Madhushala. I reported that Faiz's heavily Persianized verse was inappropriate and went over the audience's heads, and that Bachchan's act was poor.

Mohyeddin wrote to me: "Your observations on Bachchan's rendition are absolutely spot on... You have been kind enough not to mention that he is--and this surprised me--besura as well--As for Mr Bachchan's recital, the less said the better. I listened to the first few phrases of his poorly inflected sing song--and bolted. As for the quality of his father's poetry, Firaq Gorakhpuri's comment, made over fifty years ago, was the ultimate."

I don't know what Firaq's comment was, but it could not have been polite.

Chicken heart Salman, shallow Aamir, thuggish Shah Rukh, insecure Amitabh. What a fascinating reflection the mirror offers our stars.

Kipling wrote in Kim that India was the only democratic society in the world. Perhaps it is, but it's not meritocratic. Birth privileges people in India more than any other nation, but this isn't entirely true for Bollywood. You get an opportunity easily if your family is in the business, yes, but the audience decides who is charismatic.

The Khans, and Bachchan before them, have triumphed in the toughest market in the world, and that reveals something else about them.

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Anonymous's picture

How strange. SRK isn't homosexual because he isn't effeminate? What world do you live in? Was Rock Hudson effeminate? Is Neil Patrick Harris effeminate? Do you think gay men strut around like Bobby Darling?

Anonymous's picture

So is Aakar patel brother of Tarina patel who is wife of Iqbal sharma? Saw bikini pictures of Tarina who is a starlet herself having worked in Hindi films - her husband Iqbal sharma and her Father seemed to putting this straight face and saying they never knew who Saif was??????????????????

Anonymous's picture

moimeme
i believe you.........
in country when he get away with murder simply they will allow him to sit inside plane
and about his so-called gf she another sex tool for him he didn't care about her ....
and who toss aish here
did she drive under the influence of alcohol
did she kill somebody
did she jail for poaching
did she wear a skull cap for sympathy she will be A JOKE !!!

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RE: Mon, 2012-02-20 22:03 — Naveed

It would be funny if it wasn't so sad to see how clueless you are. you can't even read page on the internet without attacking other people's opinions. well, i suppose there would always be people like you doing what you do. what's why there is so much badness and hate in this world. my advice to you dude: quit attacking people and learn a thing or two from them. there are things that you're supposed to feel bad about LIKE SAY WHEN PEOPLE DIE AS A RESULT OF OTHER PEOPLE'S DOING SAL****COUGHGHGHGHG.

Anonymous's picture

You don't have to be effeminate to be gay. That's one of the biggest stereotypes around. There are extremely macho men who are gay, there are "boys next door" types who are gay. Gay people come in all sizes, shapes and have diverse body language like the rest of humanity. Also, Salman doesn't come across as funny in those anecdotes - he's just crass.

Anonymous's picture

hey moimeme ur story really crack me up.... i mean seriously which airline ur sister works in who allows drunk people to enter plane.. i would love to travel by that!!!! u better try ur hand in bollywood for writing scripts or stories.. u will make very good masala film..... FREE ADVICE.. DONT WASTE UR TALENT HERE......

Naveed's picture

@ moimeme - I will do what I should have done and that is to ignore. Sorry if I offended you but you carry on as I said.

Arina's picture

@moimeme wow You write your own fantasy stories..LOL

Anonymous's picture

I met Salman Khan one day at the Singapore airport (I work there). He actually asked me where the prayer room is. Very sweet guy.

moimeme's picture

@ Naveed
My dear, that is what you are doing...you can't stop or do anything about it..sure, promote your favourite star as much as you like - no one's stopping you...n for the record, I'm not an Ash fan..I'm a Vidya Balan fan...

Naveed's picture

@ moimeme - don't flatter yourself. I have better things to do with my time instead of keeping tabs on you and your fellow few ash fans. I post regularly on Salman here on PV so ofcourse I know who has posted what on the threads as I try replying to those who wish to know something from me.

Like I said come back in May when ETT trailer arrives.... you can come up with your usual drivel because I can do with a laugh :)

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@ Naveed
Seems like you are keeping a tab on me..but let me disappoint you right here..I am not bias towards anybody i the film industry..I do comment on the post that I read..and I do know that i have commented positively on your fave hero - just when it's right..it's the truth, you either take it or you don't...Also that incident was personal since a commenter was asking for proof, I gave it to him..I didn't feel the need to share before, but am sure there are many stories similar to mine...

Naveed's picture

@ moimeme - I have always seen you bash Salman and when something positive of him is posted you NEVER care to comment. Strange how such a major incident like the one you have narrated has just been brought to our attention by you LOL

Carry on......

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RE: Mon, 2012-02-20 15:51 — Naveed

Because he was drunk and that too heavily...Katrina can't do anything to control him..I don't know, but maybe you had enjoy watching a drunk guy inappropriately touching your sister..This is not a USA/Europe airlines we are talking about..Being an employer you can go and complain to the captain but if the captain doesn't do anything then there's little you can do...

In case you guys don't know...how in the world can you throw out a drunk passenger in mid-air? There wasn't just Salman Khan, but many others..There was Aditya Pancholi, who when drunk would crawl like a baby and playfully touch people's legs on the plane..There's Rishi Kapoor, who gets so drunk that he needs help to get off on the plane after landing..

If Salman was Shakti Kapoor then you all would have been pissed off...but it's Salman here so the blinds come down! Thankfully, not on me and selected others below!

Anonymous's picture

You know SR B is looking like a gunda, Salman might have taken some lessons from him, probably not long enough. The real gunda knows how to handle Gundi Queen - Aishwarya RAi.

Anonymous's picture

I guess in the last paragraph, they forgot to mention Abhi, who didn't just get an opportunity, but robbing crores from producers (wonder why they have to give a failing actor so many chances), must be some political connections. The guy was born with silver spoon in his mouth, and now he is gonna die with the gold spoon in his mouth without making a single hit in his entire span of filmy career.

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Sun, 2012-02-19 23:38 — Anonymous

Ok honestly who are the people here who are defending Salman Khan???
Mon, 2012-02-20 14:53 — Kitty

@ moimeme... ewww, really? Inappropriate touching when he was sitting next to his so-called gf? Gross!

I hope your sis gave him a tight slap or at least told him to eff off!
u wants to know who r these people defending salman khan.... his millions of fans worldwide..... it dosent matter what u say or what haters say he is always going to remain at top of the game & it dosent make any difference to him nor to anyone else what u people think or say... so f*^% off......
& kitty i was expecting ur comment here long time back like 1st comment but i m dissapointed that ur comment is last comment here.... lolll... it seems like ur salman obbession is coming down...... good!!!! & i simply cant stop laughing after reading story of moimeme...... loll at the story.... just like naveed said why would someone will give dam about ur sister who is mother of 2 kids when most beautifull women is there.............

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Reply to 2-20-2012, 16:52

Why in world, Ashs blind fans defend her. She is the most calculating, immoral, liar, will do anything to make a buck, even if she has to carry an affair with FIL, she will do it. She used Salman, Vivek, so many producers and directors. And know she is using her own husband ( he is just a huband just in papers), she rather be seen in the company of a super star, super succesful, father in law, than a chuddu husband, who doesn't have a single hit under his belt.

Anonymous's picture

Oh, the author forgot to bring the SR B's affairs with Rekha, Praveen Babi and the latest right under his roof ---trying to make a fool of Jaya and Abhi.

You all know what we are talking about.

MeeshoA's picture

i cant believe how salman's fans keep defending him...i dont know what this world has become, we make murders n abusers superstars :s disgusting

Naveed's picture

LOL at two notorious Salman haters below

No offence to moimeme but why would Salman touch your sister that too in the presence of one of the most beautiful women around - Katrina Kaif and if she was so 'offended' why not report the incident but no instead we have you commenting here on Pinkvilla LOL

keep it up girls but come back soon as ETT trailer is about to arrive :)

I would anyday believe the likes of Preity Zinta, Lolo, Rani, bebo etc in how Salman is with his co stars compared to a certain star who is constantly paraded on here. Enough said

Kitty's picture

@ moimeme... ewww, really? Inappropriate touching when he was sitting next to his so-called gf? Gross!

I hope your sis gave him a tight slap or at least told him to eff off!

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RE: Sun, 2012-02-19 23:38 — Anonymous
i know right.........people defending salman are the same people who have no moral values, no guild, and no sympathy for other people. it kind of makes you understand why we have so many wars in this world=because some people think it's ok to kill other people and get away with it. and then those same people make those murderers their star. it's like watching someone kill someone else and thank them and give them money by watching their movies. you would think religion at least would stop them from worshiping criminals. but that does not do anything either.

for all those people who let themselves be fooled by people like salman:
MAY GOD SHOW YOU THE TRUTH ONE DAY

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RESun, 2012-02-19 22:40 — Anonymous
"The article is only aimed as maligning Salman by spreading loose talk"

Anonymous's picture

i simply cant stop laughing after reading story of this moimeme [guy or girl].. so according to u ur sister is air hostess & works in airlines [which one i would like to know]. & according to u salman was drunk & was flirting & inappropriately touching ur sister that to in front of his girlfriend & other people on plane..........................
well there is no airlines in this world who allows drunk people to sit inside plane. so there only real truth about ur story comes to the picture... 2nd thing is do u really think katrina is so stupid women who will allow her boyfriend to flirt with other girls or to touch them or to sing songs for them that to in front of her...... big LOLLLLL...AFTER READING UR STORY I THOUGHT NOW U WILL SAY AFTER TOUCHING & SINGING SONGS FOR MY SISTER IN FRONT OF KATRINA SALMAN STARTED KISSING MY SISTER IN FRONT OF EVERYONE & SHE DIDNT SAID ANYTHING.....LOLLLL... BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME... TRY TO COME UP WITH GOOD STORY WHICH WILL BE ATLEAST BELIEVABLE...................

Anonymous's picture

How can people love a man who beats women?

Anonymous's picture

its refreshing to read something hard hitting and not sugar coated about these Bollywood Stars...

regarding Aamir Khan, he is still a good person in my eyes, though i cannot respect him as a man because i personally dont see a man who jumps from one marriage to another as my hero.. but otherwise no crime in not following through a cause.. atleast he tried

regarding Shahrukh, so what if he's a goonda? in his favor he doesnt profess to be a cultured and refined man from the Queens lineage.. not that i'm a fan, infact i believe he's the most overrated actor and cant do anything save for making comical faces.

regarding Salman, its really amazing how he can still have a national fan following despite being a murderer and poacher, not to mention womanizer, shows the low ethics of the general public who adores him. (although i dont believe that guy died only because of Salman, please use your own head)

regarding Bachchan, that family is a joke, yes, Amitabh is a stellar actor and would be revered for that if he dint invite personal judgement by insisting on sharing everything about his life on blog, and when he does this the double standards really suck big time! the joke on not even sharing the name of his grand daughter is just plain pathetic attempt to get more media hype.. its a shameful act, if you dont want to share personal stuff and get so uptight about it, do your movies and keep the hell away.

PV post this please.

Anonymous's picture

Ok honestly who are the people here who are defending Salman Khan???

So in your books, alcoholism, disrespect for women etc might be ok, but how on this big wide Earth can anyone defend murder is behind my understanding!

Anonymous's picture

The article is only aimed as maligning Salman by spreading loose talk. he may be involved in some legal cases but the rest of the things said are lies. All the women Salman has worked with have only nice things to say about him and he does joke a lot and some jealous ppl misinterpret it.

Anonymous's picture

It is SRK who is always keen to rekindle friendship with Salman.. SRK is the one who apologised to salman on Kjo's shows... srk desperate for publicity ... Salman is the one who is not interested ... and that has annoyed srk big time

Shah Rukh turned menacing: "Tu kya marega? Tu haath toh utha, main maroonga tujhe. Woh bhi teri party main, aur tere doston ke saamne," he snarled. LOOOL

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