Spare a thought for Sridevi…..Shobhaa De blogs

I don't know shobha's love and respect for a woman who did not think twice to break a home take away father from two innocent and young kids. Have shobha spared a thought what a humilitation mona, arjun and anushala faced. Just because you are heroine get a shelter in some body's house and thereafter steal a father and husband and run away.

SHRIDEVI IS ALWAYS SECOND WOMEN WHO HURTED MONA KAPOOR

To:
Tue, 2012-04-17 18:21 — Anonymous
We don't think so. You literally have to be dumb to not know the truth.
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You 'clever' person it could also be that Boney and Mona were not happy...its better to separate rather being not happy together....You seem to be a very narrow minded person!

To :
"Mon, 2012-04-16 12:46 — Anonymous
Leave her alone guys...no one knows the truth!"

We don't think so. You literally have to be dumb to not know the truth.

To :
"Sun, 2012-04-08 10:24 — Anonymous

I don't like the implication that I have no emotions. And I'm so sorry that that you find yourself unlucky in these situations.
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sure, I think I would consider myself very unlucky if I had fallen in love with a married man! Coz, emotions dont understand logic!"

Yep. In that case why don't you fall in love with a cow, if emotions can take such better of you?

Sridevi is vile for the part she played in breaking up a family. Her "husband" is no saint either. Neither of them deserve any sympathy from the public whatsoever. In life you get your dues. They are getting theirs now.

In my opinion, Actresses decisions and actions cannot be judged in the same way a common man or woman's action would be. Of course, it is wrong to break up a family (whether it is already broken up or not does not matter, an outsider involvement is wrong) but you have to think about the career of an actress. Look at Preity Zinta, she had a respectable relationship with Ness Wadia for a long time and when the most important step for marriage came, he left her. Actresses are not easily accepted into families as wives and daughter-in-laws. They are judged by what they have done and there reputation is not clean. Only families from the industry accept the women and give them their respect. And there are also those actors who flirt around and do everything with actresses but still want a homely, pure wife. In such a case, the prospects for actresses when there career fades become dim and their decisions are only meant to secure a comfortable, respectable home. I don't think love has a part to play in this. Love develops eventually, but marriage is more than love for most people. Sri Devi did what was best for her, and Boney Kapoor did what was best for all. Unless a man gives a women a right, a woman will never cross her boundaries, especially intelligent, sensible woman.

To :
"Fri, 2012-04-06 16:36 — Anonymous

having a second marriage is immoral and unethical??
does it make a woman husband snatcher if the man
is in love with her and wants to spend his life with her
legally??
love happens right, and if a man is already not happy with
his wife he will surely look around...this is a FACT...
i think it is better for any man to have two wives rather
than having an illicit and unofficial relationship forever...."

Why don't you try working out such an arrangement with your spouse?

To :
"Sat, 2012-04-07 08:08 — Anonymous

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"Thu, 2012-04-05 15:45 — Anonymous
No one wakes up one day and says 'i want to be the other woman in this married man's life'. Life happens! We get trapped emotionally and go through various situations. What Hema malini and Sridevi did was what was destined. They did not choose. Retrospectively however they might want things to be different. But one cannot choose in life. Can we?"...................................................................................................................

Yes we can. At least if I were in the same situation, I would walk out. It's difficult but one's character is put to test at that juncture.

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To the person who answered the above: You must be lucky in life if you can choose and measure each and every step or you have no emotions! You are very lucky!"

Are you trying to say that Sridevi was not lucky enough and hence she married Boney? Get a life!

why are people still talking about Boney's rakhaiel (keep) ??

according to indian legislation an indian nationality holder belonging to hinduism cannot have to wives at the same time. likewise any person practicing hinduism is not allowed to have two wives at the same time. that was the reason why dharmendar had to convert to marry hema malini. going by the legislation and religion .. i dont know what to say. or if there is another legilation and if there is something i m missing from the religion itself, enlighten me.

Sridevi and Boney Kapoor officially got married in 1997! Shobha De as usual makes no damn sense

to all those who keep supporting such women with the cliche haters are only jealous small minded people blah blah bs know fully well they are only fooling themselves for Indian cine viewers are very conservative. In the good ole days hardly anyone knew and those who did had their doubts. Bad news travels faster today as it happens. Majority of moviegoers in India and abroad are families who take their kids to watch bw to keep them tied to their roots due to fast eroding Indian culture in real lives. Otherwise all of Mallika Sherawat and Emran Hashmi starrers would go on to become record breaking ATBB.

All of this raises questions for me, like did they have a legal marriage. when did boney file for divorce from mona, and when did it become official, legally. And yes, please someone explain why sridevi had an affiar with mithun a married man?, and then he threw her away and stayed with his wife. Then she found boney or should I say "trapped". Whats really funny is when you see her kids, what are they going to think when they grow up and what will people say to them. Cuz sridevi was pregnant before marriage. So much pressure on those young girls. She may be rich when it comes to money, but morally she is bankrupt in my eyes and im sure many others.

having a second marriage is immoral and unethical??
does it make a woman husband snatcher if the man
is in love with her and wants to spend his life with her
legally??
love happens right, and if a man is already not happy with
his wife he will surely look around...this is a FACT...
i think it is better for any man to have two wives rather
than having an illicit and unofficial relationship forever....