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Trishala's shattered.
Trishala's shattered: Sanjay Dutt’s daughter Trishala Dutt is very disturbed with the news of her papa’s new wife, Maanayata’s pregnancy. It was difficult enough to deal with the unexpected khabar. Awakening Trishala was woken up at 3 am (on February 11) by a TV reporter who asked her to comment on the shaadi. Sanju had invited friends from LA and Chicago but hadn’t thought it necessary to break the news to his only daughter. After hanging up on the TV reporter, the 20-year-old called her father who confirmed the wedding. A source close to the Dutt family informs, “Sanju wasn’t concerned about her reaction. He was more worried about her talking to the media. He forbade her to talk to the press.” Gone into a shell The source adds, “She is shattered and has gone into a shell since hearing the news. She hasn’t talked to her aunts, Priya and Namrata, and her cousins Saatchi and Sia, who are very close to her. Sanju always told Trishala that he had no plans of getting married for the third time.” The source continues, “She is really shaken by the news of Maanayata being pregnant. Apparently, she told Dutt on her last trip that she wants to be his only child and she would be very upset if he became a dad again. She adores her dad and since she doesn’t have a mom, is very possessive about him. She feels that their relationship is still in the developing stages, as she has never lived with him. She doesn’t want to share him with a sibling.” Trishala was planning to come down in December but is now having second thoughts. The insider says that it’s not just the Dutt sisters who feel that Maanayata hasn’t made the effort to get along with the family; Trishala too feels that Maana is dividing the family, “Trishala’s relationship with her dad started changing ever since she lived with him at his Bandra flat on her last trip.” The source goes on to confide, “Trishala feels her relationship with her dad has been going steadily downhill after he got involved with Maana. She feels he has changed a lot. He barely keeps in touch with her. The source confirms, “Maanayata controls everything in Dutt’s life, personally and professionally from his finances to his friends and Trishala feels it’s Maanayata who has driven a wedge between father and daughter.” Trishala refuses to comment and pleads, “Please leave me out of this. I don’t have anything to say.” ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I'm really curious about what people here think. What do you think of Trishala wanting to be Sanju's only child? I've been reading across the web where ppl ahve expressed their opinions saying that Manyata has 'phasaoed' Sanju and that she's after his property etc etc....That his sisters dislike him because she's not classy enough or doesn't have a clean past. Now, my question to the Dutt sisters, if they indeed are worried about Mana's not-so-clean past, is....Did Nargis, their Mommy dearest, have a clean past? Does Sanju have a clean past? What is it with this obsession of our society that concers itself ONLY with the woman's past. The men can make merry with twenty thousand girls but the girl be damned if she has had ONE past BF/Lover. Now if Sanju is happy with her, why can't his family accept that. Maybe there are other issues but ppl talking about Manyata using witchcraft to ensnare Sanju baba is a so hilarious!! He is not a 'baba' anyone. For God's sake, the man is 48!!!
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As much as I can sympathize with the daughter's hurt feelings, i feel Sanjay Dutt has every right to marry . A daughter is different from a wife, duh. Trishala is young and has her own life, Sanjay has the right to find a romantic partner and companion, someone to grow old and share a life with. Just because he's 50 doesn't mean he should live the remaining 50 years of his life alone in his bungalow. As for the kids, he may not have wanted or planned having more kids, but when he marries a young woman, it's natural that she may want to experience motherhood. It comes with the package. w/e .
poor soul
I'm sorry but maybe you need to put yourself in his daughters shoes. She grew up with out any parental love pretty much. She had no mother and built a relationship with her father much later in her life. Her not wanting to share him with someone else (another sibling) is just her trying to live something she missed out on. And I don't think anyone should be having children at the age of 50. It's not good for a baby that's coming into this world. A child's health isn't just in connection to a mothers age because she cares him or her for 9 months. As a father he needs to make strong bonds with the children he already has. If his daughter felt secure about her relationship with her father maybe after some time having a brother or sister wouldn't be a big deal. She's probably wanted to live in a normal family. She just never had the chance to. So before you say she needs to grow up. You need to put yourself in her place and imagine growing up the way she did. She never said she has a problem with him getting married. She didn't want him have children at this point that was her opinion. If my father was going to get married for the third time and he was close to 50 years old I wouldn't want him to have children either.There is an age for everything. She also had every right to know he was getting married. You obviously messed up at being a father if you invited friends from the states and didn't have your daughter fly in. As far as I understand she is the only thing he has in connection to his 1st wife. This his daughter with his 1st wife who he loved so much. I'm sorry her reactions are fine she doesn't have to calm down. Have my father get married again and not even tell me ... have me have to hear it from someone else. Then have to call him and confront him about it. I would have a problem with that. You just don't do that... your children come before any woman. Specially when your children haven't done bad to you.
Sanjay is way too old to become a father again. Why did he marry Manyata if there is an 18 year age difference between them? Manyata is ugly. He is so mean because he didn't tell his daughter about his marriage. Poor Trishala. I feel sorry for her, she doesn't even have a mum.
Fashionista, no I don't think she needs to grow up. For starters, she's an only child. I'm an only child as well, and I'm 20 years old, but I can tell you that if my mother were to be pregnant again right now, I'd be extremely shocked. I don't want to share my parents with anyone else right now because I'm that attached to my parents, and sharing them is not something I'm ready to do. Now I can't imagine the kind of attachment and possessiveness I'd have towards my father if I were to be motherless. And I'd be extremely upset if he were to be married to somebody and have a child.
Also, I've read an interview of her in the past, when talks of Sanjay marrying Maanya popped up, and the poor girl seemed clueless as she stated "I don't know where these talks came from. I'm the only girl in his (Sanjay's) life."
From the sounds of it, her father did not tell her he was getting married & if he didn't tell her, that already created a wedge between them, and furthermore, if he did not tell her that he's getting married, I'm certain he didn't tell her about his wife's pregnancy either.
Yes, the girl has every right to be shattered.
Well!!A oerson who has no respect for the man's daughter and sisters is hardly marriage material,don't u think??
can someone please find an updated picture of Trishala, i heard she has lost so much weight and is looking simply stunning
sanjay is such a cruel man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:(
sab manyata ke choot ka khel hai..lol
things would have been better if he was locked up in jail!
sanjay dutt is a freakin CLOWN!
"Anyway, just venting.The article was good but your summary was better!!"
Thanks lovesmakeup. :)
SimplyFaiza, I wasn't trying to win at all. Were you? Anyway, we'll just have to agree to disagree. I'm not singling you out or charging you with anything but I find it so odd and rude that people sometimes come out calling a poster mean and heartless just because they don't agree with what they've said. Do they know the person they are attacking? Better yet, do they know the celebrity that they are defending? That celebrity/person who is making them behave badly with another poster on this forum? Just boggles my mind. Anyway, no hard feelings.
@anon:"and i think I speak for everyone here..
Sanjay Dutt is a asshole. End Of Story"
Seems you like to have the last word!! ;)
And the anon below me, thank you for understanding how I think Trishala should be thinking. I totally agree that Sanjay should've informed her and saved her the hurt. I'm not saying Sanju is perfect, it's just that ...he's human too...
many of may not agree but i think they don't like her coz she's a muslim...
vow great fun reading comments rather than post ppl are such f*****s here, they r njoing over somebody's tragedy n life n getting judgemental "no sanju's right" "no tishala is right" leave dem alone man y get judgemental. shut ur F*****G mouth
i agree mystic, trishala needs to open up her mind and see things from dad's perspective as well. we all have our lives to live and have to do what makes us happy. however manyata is, she makes him happy, else he wouldn't have taken that step. as for differences in the family, they should try to sort it out. no one is perfect, everyone has issues - ultimately it's their choice how they want to channel things. sometimes, we cant make everyone happy. but sanjay shd not be losing touch with his only daughter, and to not have informed her...was am sure extremely hurtful to her.
Get a life all of you, do some work instead of writing stupid things and wasting your time.
oh GOD....why does everyone care about this???
LET ME MAKE MY POINT HERE CLEAR::
and i think I speak for everyone here..
Sanjay Dutt is a asshole. End Of Story.
Try to put ur time and energy in some useful things.CHILL man!!!!! Not coming bak to this post and writing one argument after the other.SO just gracefully retiring from this topic b'coz it's getting quite useless now.and yes,FEEL FREE TO EXPRESS UR OPINONS ALWAYS.DONT B SCARED TO DO THT EVER IN LIFE! A peice of advice!!!!!MUAAAHHH!!!!!!!!!!HAVE A NICE DAY EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
*yawn*. boring. guys move on.
ANYWAY,enuff said and written abt it,let's not waste time on this one,I suppose u would b having some other inportant things to do Mystic instead of trying to win an argument here!!!!
Take care hun!
SOMETHING CAN'T B HELPED!!SIGH!HEy gurl,it said HE WAS'NT CONCERNED ABT HER REACTION,it's just not only her talking to the media dear,tht's another story,i'm not talking abt tht right now.HE BARELY KEEPS IN TOUCH WITH HER...in other words,DID'nt CARE!BUT I did'nt get i t,can't u read ?????or u just like to forward ur own point of view???again,BLINDLY????!!!!!!!
Ok,he did'nt want her to move away from her dying mother but now wht???now tht she died a long time ago,whr's her dad???y is'nt he by her side????
We need our parents at every stage of our lives,even when we r grown ups and get married.Dont say tht she is a grown up and not a child nemore.U r a grownup I suppose,what If ur Dad gets up and remarry,will u support him and say dad,it's ur life,go ahead and take the plunge???I would never but I think the way u r supporting sunjay,u wud!
ANd if u were expressing ur opinon freely if u felt i was being preachy and mean,it's ok dear,ofcourse u r free to express.LOL.
ANyway,I would just remain with my opinons,I feel for his daughter who has suffered.Everyone is entitled to their opinons and I dont have to explain my point.B'coz explaining won't help in some cases,espacially this one!!!
yooo enough about this shit. first of all i wanan see some new pics of trishala. i heard she lost lots of weight. im sick of seeing her when she was chubby. heard she looks very beautiful. Sanjay Dutt is a idiot. He married such a ugly gyal...also at 49 years old!. Sanjay dutt im so glad your not my dad because i would probably jump off a cliff. you are probably THE worst father ever!. Trishala dear, I feel very bad that you have a father like him. Next time you speak to him please tell him that my name is Gurleen Singh and that my message to him is that YOU (SANJAY DUTT) ARE A NAMUNA!
SANJAY DUTT SHOULD BE ASHAMED. HE DIDNT EVEN INFORM HIS DAUGHTER!!!. HE IS SUCH A ANIMAL!! If that was my father I would throw a egg at his face and that new ugly wife of his Maaaaaaaaaaana. Sanjay Dutt, Grow up man...50 years old and marrying again for the 3rd time? YOU ARE PATHETIC SIR!.
Trishala, If you ever come across this message. My name is Manisha..we met a couple days ago,i saw you walking and i had stopped you to complement you on those gucci sunglasses you were wearing haha. I just want to tell you that you look so pretty! you have lost so much weight and your looking like a superstar!. Please do not feel bad that you father did not inform you because im sorry to say this please do not hate me for saying this but your father is a JERK and i always knew he was a jerk since day 1 because of all the things i used to read about your late mother and how he was never there for you. Can not wait for you to join movies because I know by the way you look now and they way how you carry yourself. You will suceed!
God Bless You. STAY STRONG!
Mystic, I completely agree with your views about the double standards in our society in the way men men are perceived vs. women.I have absolutely no idea what went down personally between Sanjay Dutt and his daughter.If indeed he acted in a manner to make her feel left out,that was wrong and I feel bad for his daughter.But that aside, it is so pathetic that in our society a woman is maligned and branded as a home breaker and aspersions are cast on her past.Why is the woman the villain?All the more so in this situation because we are talking about Sanjay freaking Dutt who could be the poster child for someone who has made some really awful mistakes in his life.This is now his third marriage.Can you imagine the brouhaha that would be generated if instead of a hero a female star had lived this lifestyle?These vultures would have painted her a slut and ran her out of town.
Anyway, just venting.The article was good but your summary was better!!
I don't think anybody is bitter about his marriage, it's the way in which it seems to have happened has angered most of his family and fans. Put yourself in his daughter's shoes and think, how would you feel if your father went and married someone without informing you!! What he did to his family is just wrong....he needs to grow up and not his daughter. It's time he acted his age!
i think if i were at trishala's place, i would be upset if my own dad didnt tell me about his wedding. if a child doesnt have a mom or dad, she or he would be possesive. i understand where his daughter is coming from. what i dont understand is why make a such a big deal about this?? it's their personal lives, leave them alone!!!
also, i dont think sanjay dutt would let his "new wife" lead his life but love is blind and it can do anything to people so never know.
lol these are the longest posts ever!
So just because he doesn't want her to talk to the prying media, he doesn't care?? Cool. She feels he has changed. Maybe he has because he did not listen or give her what she wanted...i.e. NEVER remarry. Yes, I've read reports where she wanted him to promise NEVER to remarry. I did not copy/paste blindly, but it seems you read blindly and infer what YOU want hun. But then maybe you know them personally to draw such assumptions!! ;)
I've read numerous times Trish was with her grandparents when her mom was sick and was being treated in the states. She knew that as her HOME. Sunil Dutt and SUnjay didn't want to take that away from her after Richa died. He has not ignored his only child. That child wanted a strange promise from him...don't ever marry again. Why?
Well, I was expressing MY opinion freely bc I felt you were being preachy and mean.
"Sanju wasn’t concerned about her reaction. He was more worried about her talking to the media. He forbade her to talk to the press.”
"She feels he has changed a lot. He barely keeps in touch with her."
And who told you her father doesn't care? Just because he started a LIFE of his own, he doesn't care?? WTH!!
LOL!!!!!!!!!!! U crack me up!!!!!!!!!!! Did u copy paste the article from the source blindly dear????
Why does he barely keep in touch with his only daughter???? If he cares as u said,can't he take responsibility of his only child???What circumstances r u talking about???Do u know them personally???!!!!!!
Why was'nt he CONCERNED about her reaction??well,the answer is,he doesnt care!
Children are parents resonsibilty,IF he wants to remarry,so be it, but at the same time,should not ignore his only child.IF she is disturbed,he should make her feel relaxed and talk it out like a good father which he's not.
And i'm not being preachy,I just did'nt like your comments about his daughter and i'm free to express my opinions here.
Yeah anon, Sanju should be really ashamed. He is 50 or around 50. He should have just chosen to wither up and die instead of choosing to live a life. That bad, bad man!! (I need a rolleyes smilie here).