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Deepika to Mumbai Mirror: If my man gave me security, why would I be possessive?
Deepika doesnt seem to stop talking abour Ranbir in each and every interview of hers. In a recent interview to Mumbai Mirror she talks on how Ranbir made her act possessive. My advice to Deepu - concentrate on BreaK ke Baad and forget Ranbir. Focus on being the top actress in bollywood acting wise as well and trust me Ranbir will one day regret his behaviour. Here's an excerp You are dating Siddhartha Mallya… I know people are curious to know, but too much has been said about my personal life in the past. Last year, I was working my a** off but people wrote only about my personal life. So, I wouldn’t like to answer this question. Siddhartha lost several kilos to look dapper, matching his steps with yours. Give Siddhartha the credit. It’s his hard work. He is the one who hit the gym, went on a rigorous diet and ran like a hare. Bollywood heroines are known to flit from one relationship to the other in a blink. Be it Kareena Kapoor, Priyanka Chopra or you… I can’t speak for the others, but why do people have a problem if a woman moves on in her personal life? You can’t say that I won’t fall in love for 10 years after a break up, or say, main roti rahungi. If a man sleeps with ten women on the rebound, nobody raises a finger. It is wrong to give everything a time frame. Aren’t you a possessive lover? It was said that in your previous relationship, you never gave Ranbir any space. If my man gives me my security, why would I be possessive? Then I wouldn’t ask him where he is, what he is doing or even who he is with. If my partner is doing things, which betray my trust, then I will become possessive. You become possessive only when you know there’s something going wrong, not just for the heck of it. It’s not about the kind of person I am, it’s about the person I am with. Of course. Everybody knows the intensity of that relationship. A break-up is always hurting. But you know what, I could have completely crumbled and ruined myself or used that as an opportunity to become a happier person. I chose not to be shattered. I identified my strengths and came out of it. And he is now dating Katrina Kaif? (Smiles) Is it? I don’t know.
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@ Anonymous I pray for you to fall for a girl like Deepika and she cheats on you then you will realize what Ranbir went through how hurt he was from that cheater!
@ Anonymous First of all Ranbir never cheated on her. He never had any relationships. So stop lying and believing this good for nothing Mrs Padukone. I never keep posting the same comment every where. I'm not a bimbo. Stop calling me that. God whats the matter with you. Deepika is a liar. She cheated on Ranbir ok. He never two timed her.
Fri, 2011-10-14 18:07 — Anonymous
Ranbir did not cheat on Deepika! She is lying. She has cheated on all of her boyfriends. Ranbir never two timed her! Period. So you guys who are believing Deepika's words need to stop. I agree that most males are disgusting, but Ranbir never cheated on her. Thats the truth. Ranbir is a very down to earth, warm, gentle and good guy he was not dating Katrina nor was she his girlfriend. Just because they did two films together, doesn't mean they were dating eachother god. That was a big fat rumor. Ranbir knows that Katrina was Salman's only. So stop blaming Ranbir.
Also Katrina did nothing wrong, I don't know why Deepika hates her so much? Kat and Ranbu are just good friends. Can't 2 people have a friendly relationship by just being good friends? Seriously you guys don't understand this at all. I love Ranbu soooooo much! I believe him. I don't believe Deepika at all, because she cheated on him!
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You keep posting the same comment everywhere dumbo. You write this same comment on Youtube & also on Times of India articles. Are you mad or something? Disgusting! I know you are a girl. And it's because of mad fan girls like you these kind of cheaters dare to cheat on women because even girls support men after all, especially the likes of you. You keep bashing Deepika everywhere. Face it girl! He did cheat on her. He has been in many relationships in the past. I hope one day you fall for a guy like Ranbir & after some months he cheats on you or dumps you, his parents misbehave with you. Then only you will understand what deepika went through. I pray to god this happens as soon as possible. Good Bye Bimbo!
Ranbir did not cheat on Deepika! She is lying. She has cheated on all of her boyfriends. Ranbir never two timed her! Period. So you guys who are believing Deepika's words need to stop. I agree that most males are disgusting, but Ranbir never cheated on her. Thats the truth. Ranbir is a very down to earth, warm, gentle and good guy he was not dating Katrina nor was she his girlfriend. Just because they did two films together, doesn't mean they were dating eachother god. That was a big fat rumor. Ranbir knows that Katrina was Salman's only. So stop blaming Ranbir.
Also Katrina did nothing wrong, I don't know why Deepika hates her so much? Kat and Ranbu are just good friends. Can't 2 people have a friendly relationship by just being good friends? Seriously you guys don't understand this at all. I love Ranbu soooooo much! I believe him. I don't believe Deepika at all, because she cheated on him!
She can use that wit to act well in movies
Tue, 2010-11-16 22:07 — Anonymous
--> it's not about their affair.. it's about society and bloggers of her own gender glorifying a male for serial-dating, but judging a female. it'a a gender discrimination issue. period. and no, Deeps didn't start this controversy.. she was just asked an offending question in an interview and gave a witty replay-- to which the public tried to tarnish her. ((( anyone recall the Manya days when she would serial-press a cheater?--she was BOLD))).
when it comes to the deepika and rabir's affair, i think deepika is taking all the advantage and fully bad mouth ranbir why she is enjoy the public stunt that she is creating for her self, she is nothing but an opportuntist, she needs to stop behaving like a two year and get over herslef, i think ranbir is over deepika . btu she still loves the guy, it's disgracing to see a woman run after a guy , when seh fully well knows that ranbir has moved on, ihave said it many a times that deepika needs to get over ranbir, she is only hurting herslf.
Tue, 2010-11-16 09:58 — Anonymous --> too many sterotyped overly-traditional women-judging busybodies these days.. like 'Miss Malini' and this dude.... people, mind your business and remember.. if Ranbhir as a guy can date.. so can Deeps. he's dated quite many more than Deeps...
remember, this is the day and age where women vote, read and heck.. even step out of the house to get jobs!!!
grow up people. some of the comments on her 'past' are laughable! care to dig Ranbhir's past gfs (both open and hidden and on the side) and have guys call him names? no..... guys will respect and leave Ranbhir's private life alone (heck.. even brag about it)-- but leave it to our gender to diss our own kind. The eggs thrown at Deeps strangely are coming from females.. and some of them are glorifying the 'good boy' Ranbhir at the same time!! They BOTH deserve their privacy, frankly.
it's not about defending a celeb, Tue, 2010-11-16 16:20 — Anonymous ---.. it's to fight and stand for gender rights. if an issue with a celeb brings up any racism, genderism, bias, etc. as a soceity, we all need to address it.
this is a new day and age, and dating 'many guys' is not just for 'fun'--- women are taking their love lifes into their own hands---- dating 20 to 30 frogs before they finally meet Prince Charming. Look at the lovely Manya K.. who did that.. and finally settled down. There there is the lovely Bhaghshree who met her first prince charming and never dated any other. both types deserve their freedom. So does Neetu.
PEOPLE, TRY TO UNDERSTAND THIS. Try to understand that by passing judgements, you're limiting people you may know whom you care for in your OWN gender. The future belongs to women who are FREE.
it really doesn't matter about publicyt ,etc.. the reality is a PURE DOUBLE STANDARD GENDER BIAS..
and if Deeps and this issue brought open a flashlight into this problem area.. then so be it.
is she a gender-discriminated star? yes, she is.
Ranbhir is not a dateless wonder, the dude started serially dating since his early school days.. and she's dated a fraction of what he has...... and ppl should be talking about her 'past'. he's had more trysts than her. so why is she being called all sorts of names.. why the 'letter', etc..????
WHY THE GENDER DISCRIMINATION IN THE 21ST CENTURY.
WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE PEOPLE.. NEXT TIME YOU DATE A GUY AND HE'S A FROG AND DATE A FEW MORE FROGS.. AND DUMP AND DATE THE NEXT GUY WHO'S HAD 20 GFS.. THE 'MISS MALINI' TYPES WILL SPREAD STORIES ABOUT YOU.. AND CALL THE GUY A 'GOOD BOY'. Is this what some of you stand for? gender discrimination and privacy violations rights??????
why are we fighting for and defending celebs. have seen the post of her talking to ranbir on sets of kwk. what's up with all the talk about break-up suddenly after 6 months after the real thing. getting more publicity than her upcoming movies, they better do well bc most of her movies didn't do well at box-office this year.
Thankfully, Indian society never TURNED on Manisha Koiriala who used to brag and flaut her new boyfriend every 3 monthss.. since the time she entered Bollywood at 19. She is fair and beautiful.. hence maybe people left her alone-- as fair is always 'good' for most desis... And don't say she didn't diss the guy when he did her wrong.. when her bf Ranjeet choise Aishwarya over her.. she went to press and told everyone he cheated BIG TIME!!
and here is dusky beautiful Deeps, at 25.. has dated a fraction of that .. and simply because she is dusky, she's made into a 'BAD VAMP'. oh, now Ranbhir can 'date' (wink wink) from 15 onwards with a 100 more 'non- gfs' who are all hidden.
DOES ANYONE SEE GENDER AND COLOR DISCRIMINATION GOING ON FOR DEEPIKA?
IT'S LOUD AND CLEAR SOCIETY IS MAKING HER INTO A VILLIANESS VAMP in the world's largest FREE democracy, which is India-- where women are all FREE.
both Deeps or Neetu don't deserve abuse or judgement. some of the comments below are so scary. some ppl forgot about women's lib, didn't they???
THEIR PRIVATE LIFES ARE THEIR OWN.
the two lived and chose their life differently, but the judgements on both of them are truly sad by then own gender !
ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww...
the gender discrimination is scary.
so Ranbhir gets to meet after chick since the age of 15..
and Deep's had 5 or 6 bfs (that's debatable if they were friends of actual bfs)-- and she's BAD/fast/loose???
how sad.. meet the rest of the world. by the time you're 24, you do meet guys and date and in fact, 5 or 6 frogs to meet prince charming is the way it's done now. too many frogs posing as prince charming-- hence women are getting PICKY and dumping the guy as soon as he's 'off'. beats abusive marriages, where the woman is STUCK and has to 'deal with her fate'.
she is acting very nice and look at her now. who she is with. can't she just wait for little bit and go aout with other guy. this prove and shows that she is very fast character. comeon, u r a girl and should wait for yourself.
google open letter to the father of deepika. her dad was a sportman, a fan requested him to handle. here are few lines;
Prakash Sir, don’t you think it is happening all too fast, all too openly for the daughter of “India’s greatest living sportsman”
Too much hype over the film, too many rumours, too many distractions.
One-day captain one day, one-day vice-captain the next. So much so the two gentlemen have apparently forgotten where the real match is.
Of course, it’s all very well if it’s just a publicity stunt, but I’m sure you know better.
SOMEBODY PLEASE MAKE A POST OF THIS, IF ITS NEVER BEEN SHOWN HERE ON PV
@ Sun, 2010-11-14 20:24
You gave such a short list of her exs. I agree with u that she never stick to one. Nihar pandey, muzammil ibrahim, yuvraaj singh, dhoni; she lived 2 years with nihar pandey in same apartment. Ranbir, & now siddhrath mallya-that skinny dude. & oh btw she is just 24 years old yet.
all shit written abt ranbir,,,,,,, false false and totally false..... the fact is ranbir is a gud guy, if thr's something wrong then its in deepika,, she neva stick to one,,,, first nihar pandhya, then yuvraaj singh, then dhoni, then ranmbir, then finally the mallya scion, sidhaarth,,,, but i knw one thing that she wont stick to him also cuz she get bored soon,,,,,,,,, i'm taking a relief of sigh as ranbir realised soon that wat klinda gal is she,,,,,,,,,,, thank god,, deepika u suck,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
she is made into a villian simply because she is left alone to defend her dignity.
what right does the interviewer have discussing such personal insulting questions???? she has a right to defend herself and answer the question. if your bf was cheating, wouldnt' you ask questions?????
and yes, if someone's bf or gf is cheating on them.... the common response often is they need space. 'need space??? '.. go ahead take all the space, cheaters.. but cheating is CHEATING. now Ranbhir has all the space he needs.. good for Deeps that' she's FREE of him and she should let go of her heartbreak and move on. stop villifying her that's dating on the rebound.. so what? its' her business.
We don't know what the actors do or did so why should we care or judge them? Most of them can't even act and they are still around be it Deepika or Aishwarya.
Deeps also has had bf's in the past, but she never cheated on them when she was in a relationship. - how do you know she didn't? her past bfs are maintaining a dignified silence maybe.
deepika is such a loser
...ranbir has maintained a dignified silence because he doesn't want to sink to her level.
What type of hypocrites you are? When Ash maintains a dignified silence on anything- she is called fake, sympathy goes to Vivek Oberaoi, but when Ranbir cheats his girlfriend(because he is a playboy everybody know, ) then it is called because he doesn't want to sink to her level.
Ash had valid reasons- Salman tortured her and her family, and Vivek flaunted her all around( I got the most beautiful woman) He was not mature to handle their relationship.
What excuse does this casanova Ranbir have who sleeps with every other girls in town? He would obvioulsy be silent - What will he have to say to media- Yes, I cheated on Deeps with Katrina? I sleep everyday with a new girl?
Of course, Deeps also has had bf's in the past, but she never cheated on them when she was in a relationship.
so deepika should get back with the cheater flirt boy ranbir? why would she do that? read that rk boy was having a few drinks with kat in his hotel room and deepika caught him doing that aka cheating red handed.
she needs to defend her right... the interviewer asked her an INSULTING Question...
when girls are cheated on of course its wrong! BUT when jealous cunning manipulative deepika is cheated on well no one really cares.
she is a flop actor and changes boyfriends faster than she changes her shoes.
and her face has no innocence she ran away from home to live with her boyfriend a few years ago so clearly she has no shame. and these are people who being put at the top of the list actors in bollywood shame on you for whoever is signing her and other bimbos like her for films!!! (kat ahem ahem)
My 2 cents is that I don't think Deepika has said anything out of line... the interviewer asked:
"It was said that in your previous relationship, you never gave Ranbir any space."...
I think that although she (apparently) doesn't want to talk about her personal life, she felt the need to clarify that she is not possessive. Saying "no comment" to a question like that would be like taking an insult lying down, and would of course make her look possessive. So I thought she handled it well.
But I agree that she should really just stop talking to the press about Ranbir. We don't need another Vivek Oberoi.
Flop actress, can't act, just a bimbo really.
No one knows why she got dumped so how can we assume it's Ranbir's fault? She needs to grow up!!!!!!!!!!
@Fri, 2010-11-12 09:35 — Anonymous
so are you saying that girls should not care if they cheated on????......girls who are not famous or rich or even pretty should not have an ego and be ok with being cheated on????