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Help! Hindu Girl in love with Muslim BoyTue, 2011-05-17 23:46 — dumdumHey Guys, I need help real bad. I am Hindu girl from Mumbai in love with a Muslim guy. Its 2 way. Before we take the relationship further, i wanted to get advice on what problems I could face because of the inter religion thing. I am looking for honest feedback.People talking crap about Islam, please cut the crap and dont comment here. The guy and the family are both educated. Though his majority family is in Bhopal. He is very very nice guy, we both work and are in s/w. If anyone has experience in inter religion marriage do help. I want to be aware of things that can prop up before i talk marriage to him I am not ready to convert. He wont ask me to convert I am sure of that. I am sure that he will let me follow my religion too. But i want to know what other problems can arise 
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Marry Him... the world is full of selfish people..
I am Hindu girl and in love with Muslim Boy..I will marry him with the concern of both families..And i will marry him under Special marriage act 1954.. U also Go for it.. Don't go for some psycic solutions people have given here.. Muslim Hindu Sikh Christians all are equal..
GOD is Never biased..
After marriage..I think that the problem faced is only when you will have child.. Which religion he will accept and learn the teachings.. So Discuss with the boy and both families that how to tackle through this problem.. Don't leave it on future... All The Best...
Hindu hoke ak muslim se shaadi kar rahi ho sharam aati he ki nahi .kabhi dekha he ki muslim kadki ne hindu ladke se shadi ki he
If u are a really practical and open minded person , then u have the answer within you, just find it. It is not LOVE, but It is LOVE JIHAD. It is a new way for muslim men to hire hndu wombs. that way their population will increase constantly. He wount lose anything by marrying u but u will lose everything by marrying him. even yourself. It very difficult to believe at this stage , but think 100 times before u make the final decision. All the best.
please don,t do i am also smart and educated contact to me
u will convert na yar
i'm a muslim man and lemme inform you that withought conversion marriage is valid only to AHLE-KITAB
that means those religions which carry a book with a messanger that are christians and jews,,,no one else is valid outside...Maybe he is not forcing you right now but later he may be compelled by others to force you to accept ISLAAM. LOve and everything goes away it flourishes only under true believe...I would suggest you to study ISLAAM. you will find yourself deeply attatched to this...One more thing don't judge ISLAAM through muslims,,,cz if you do so i bet you will hardly find a true muslim in this world.EVEN i am ashamed that i am not a true muslim. May ALLAH guide me to right path """and most important thing you asked what will happen to you after marriage=="everything that happens normally in married life though he is a hindu or any one,===But if YOUR BF will bw a good MUSLIM you will feel blessed and find him the best gift from the ALmighty.Otherwise it will be like a normal life like it happens in regular marriages. But only if you Convert to islaam, MAY ALLAH ACCEPT YOU.
dont wory, trust love and get married
Marry Him ...If he loves you without caring anything then u should ....Go ahead..... life is short nobody knows about Futures....
Don't marry. I faced similar situation a few years ago and i ran away with him. He made me converted n married but after 3 years divorced me and also refused our daughter. I had no place to go, my parents dint allow me, i was helpless with a 8 month baby. Then one of my friends helped me n luckily i had a job. I want to return to hinduism, is there any way?
Dont Marry
Your Life will be destroy & You cant adjust yourself
You Marry with him :
He should converted into Hinduism
Then you ll know that how much powerfull is his love.
You must marry ur love one to get succesful future ,my name is sami ur rahman from maharastra..i have m arried a hindu gal n god bless us with two kid s now ,i never force her to convert her to my religion i.e (islam) but later om after our 1st child born she hersf embarse islam n got her new name anita to rubina, she is a practsing muslima now we move to dubai with family cause of we scared about racist in india,an i just give one suggesttion to all those who r getting problms abt interfaith marriage to do the same as i to make a new world far from those society whoo dnt care abt ur tlove n feelings,koi kehta haii bhagwan toh koi Allah kiyon koi nahi kehta wke rab ne bana di jodi,ab inko jeene do aur jeeyo aye insano
dnt marry muslim boy!!!! dere religion is different dat's y i m against dis marriage frm Chaudhary Sagar YADAV
Go Ahead u will be happy, if u dodnt marry wid your LOVE r u sure u will be Happy ur whole Life ??? no na, so what r u thinking dear go an marry thats it, all religions after first love Coz LOVE IS LIFE
my personal view is ; get married in our religion.; reason; very difficult to adapt to islamic culture.; experience ; one of mu relations married a muslim, was with him for more than 4 yrs. girl has come back to parents. parents r in dilemma . how do they handle situation; very tuff matter
so avoid strongly
What religion will the children follow?
U should decide that first and they can follow only one religion.
just study real history of islam and its invasion and atrocity on other cultures then you will find real picture !!
facing the same........as im hindu n love with a muslim guy for last 8 years.....plz help me too if u find n sol
i got a pErfect solution of it
i have perfect solution of it
one allways gos back to your or his own kind my not happen for along time but it will happen
Im also hindu girl wish to marry a nice muslim boy, please advice me, Im even ready to convert, but cant live without him.Please please advice....
Don't marry.
god is one....but thers no powerfull god more then shiva..
all the religion is created by man itself so dont thnk soo much , if ur love is true then go for marriage.
kya hua ap ka bata na zarur
In Hinduism its allowed to marry muslim girl without conversion, so if Muslim religion is a problem for guy he convert to hindu to marry you.
In Islam a muslim boy/girl not allowed to marry a non-muslim.
There are reasons for it.
I am muslim but won't prefer this marriage if u can't embrace islam.
Otherwise both of you will be considered as illegal relationship in Islam.
reason being it is just not your's life but life of your children will be affected through it, chances are high they may reject faith.
But if u insist on marrying him then accept faith , be rational while learning any religion.
you can learn religion and your love will become complete if you purify your heart.
If you really love him, then first try knowing truth with help of scholars.
My suggestion is Listen to Dr. Zakir Naik for comparing religion. He has studied many religion and will guide you to truth.
For learning Quran you may take help of Dr. Israr Ahmad lectures.
If you can't explore truth , you can't explore love. because love is truth. so leave him.
In Islam a muslim boy/girl not allowed to marry a non-muslim.
There are reasons for it.
I am muslim but won't prefer this marriage if u can't embrace islam.
Otherwise both of you will be considered as illegal relationship in Islam.
reason being it is just not your's life but life of your children will be affected through it, chances are high they may reject faith.
But if u insist on marrying him then accept faith , be rational while learning any religion.
you can learn religion and your love will become complete if you purify your heart.
If you really love him, then first try knowing truth with help of scholars.
My suggestion is Listen to Dr. Zakir Naik for comparing religion. He has studied many religion and will guide you to truth.
For learning Quran you may take help of Dr. Israr Ahmad lectures.
If you can't explore truth , you can't explore love. because love is truth. so leave him.
I have a big problem, i had been in few relationships with hindu guys, but ultimately i had to leave them, because i m muslim girl. I don't know but somehow the guys i like always turns out to be Hindu. I always believe they are very caring, handsome and intelligent. My father is educated but just wants a muslim for me. I never told my mom dad about my hindu boyfriends, coz i knew they wont be ready! Finally i m now suppose to marry my cousin, sometimes i thought to just run away forever, i m too weak to run away. But i wish i could marry my hindu boyfriend than marry my own cousin. Majority of parents are is so narrow minded when muslim girl wants to marry hindu boys- i have seen it and i am tired of this religion.
Try to love Hindu boy u will forget him
Its bad
I would say Never Never and Never !!!
you cant do it
Dear Sister,
i will tel you onething if you want to marry go with your heart, but before that please read about islam and its importance, why because you will not face any problem afterthat, islam never allow idol prayer you should beleive in one god only. insha allah you will not face problem with you beloved one i believe so.
In hinduism, Boy is allowed to married muslim girl, Girl can choose if she wants to accept the truth that there is one supreme soul. so If the guy becomes a hindu, which is a 10minute job he can marry you and he will be happy all the life.
in india a marriage can happen between 2 persons ( mostly between a boy and a girl), But in islam there are certain conditions for a marriage:
1. a marriage can happen only between a man and a women ( same sex marriage is Haraam in islam)
2. a marriage can happen between 2 muslims only (being muslim is must)
if the girl is from different religion its must for her to embrace islam to be islamically married... otherwise in islam such relationships are illegitimate :)
Hope the answer will help you.
you will be very happy
Ask him to convert to Hinduism else his muslim brothers will kill him
Ha Ha . Pooja Bedi, that ultra modern girl, long time back also said similar words, but when actual day came .. she converted and changed her name to Noorjehan Ibrahim. She is now divorved and Muslim hubby has moved on to other girl.
I am sure same will befall Bebo ie Kareena Kapoor also.
Tell him what's the risks that might happhen after u 2 get married and what will be the good and the bad things which will happen in your journey of marrige .and if u r not a muslium there would be 1 problem is that when u two have have a baby the babay would be muslium bec they should follow there dads realigion ..
Hope I hellpt youxxxx
sale yaha dusro se jyada apne dukh dete h do as u wish n see d result......
india is a secular country den whats the problem after all we are adults and we know to choose the right and wrong ..............
u r not a hindu girl , nd plz dont repeat it as u r a hindu girl . tum jese girls ki wajah se or bhi hindu girls ko sharminda hona padta he . is country me 85 crores hindu he unme se tujhe 1 kutta hi pasand aaya . kher teri bhi glti nhi he tu to hindu khlane k kabi lhi nhi he, ab bhi thodi sharm baki ho to sudhr ja. ye log jb apni sisters tk se bhi shadi kr skta he nd unk sath bhi sex kr skte he to kya guarntee he ki wo tere sath loyal rhega.
I really feel bad about the present situation the youngsters are facing these days...they fall in love with a person who is not their religion or caste .they get closer n closer and finally a day comes when they know that they have to leave each other just becoz he/she is not of his religion/caste...i really feel bad..i think dat society should be more realistic,more broad minded ..to accept these intercaste marriages n support them.. because you cant prevent your childrens from loving a person who z nt his/her caste or religion...love is pure and so eternal..it just happens n people fall in love..love does'nt see whether the person whom you love is of your religion or not !
be cool about it and i would suggest parents dat please dont beat you girl or boy if he/she says that they fell in love with other caste or religion..take the matter seriously ..meet that person whom he/she loves...think about everything..meet their family..just take a decision dat brings happiness to all...dats it :) coz we now have to cross and break these rigid barrier n be more broadminded n smart ! :)
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Dear friend , Try to convince this to any of your muslim friend or any muslim panchayat or any muslim maulavi or if your are more influential - to any muslim nation!!
best of luck.
I really feel bad about the present situation the youngsters are facing these days...they fall in love with a person who is not their religion or caste .they get closer n closer and finally a day comes when they know that they have to leave each other just becoz he/she is not of his religion/caste...i really feel bad..i think dat society should be more realistic,more broad minded ..to accept these intercaste marriages n support them.. because you cant prevent your childrens from loving a person who z nt his/her caste or religion...love is pure and so eternal..it just happens n people fall in love..love does'nt see whether the person whom you love is of your religion or not !
be cool about it and i would suggest parents dat please dont beat you girl or boy if he/she says that they fell in love with other caste or religion..take the matter seriously ..meet that person whom he/she loves...think about everything..meet their family..just take a decision dat brings happiness to all...dats it :) coz we now have to cross and break these rigid barrier n be more broadminded n smart ! :)
In the current time no hindu father will let there daughter marry a muslim, muslims are traitors and very dirty. They are criminals and burn there own daughter, sister, wife. Its better you ask him to convert to Hinduism, muslims know that islam came from Hinduism so if he truly loves you ask him to convert to hinduism, he should be ok to convert. Else he is just using you. He will not get chance again to be hindu explain to him how beautiful Hindus are and there will be peace for rest of his life.
Hi,
After reading the whole thing, I would rather suggest you to accept Islam religion not only because it is good but because this will help you both in building a good relationship and a support background for your children too.
I belong to a punjabi family and in love with a muslim boy as you. I don't have courage to accept Islam because I feel this step will be very harmful for my parents and no religion allows you to harm others and move on.
So, I would suggest you to read about Islam and make a good and wise decision and accept Islam if you really want to get married to him and settle happily ever after otherwise you both will not be able to move further for a long time. He may accept you as you are, of whatever religion you may be but his family and the way of living is far different from us. Please understand everything about Islam very deeply before marriage.
All the best for your future. If you can please accept Islam because it is very good and very wise.
Hi! I am a hindu guy. I read the whole thing and can understand what you are going through. You both guys love each other and u said that he won't ask u to convert religion which is a great thing. Do your parents or his parents know about your relationship? If u think that they will accept the relationship then just tell them. Ask your guy to come and talk to your parents. If u think that telling about the relationship will make things worse then talk to your love. Can you guys leave your families to live together? Can this guy give u a good life if you guys run away? Can u do sacrifice for your love? Think about it. Don't make a quick decision. I would advise u to confess about it to your parents rather then running away. If your love is true n you can go against your family then i m sure your parents will accept. It will take time. May b u have to suffer alot between that but have faith in your love because if you guys are meant to b together then no one can stop u. All the best. Hope your parents will accept that guy :)
I have a same problem in my house, you people are nuts can you not find your own to marry and live a happy life then going through all that trouble just for few days need. no religion is bad, its the people who make it bad. you are thinking about you only at this time, why dont you think about your children what are they going to be Hindu or Muslim, you are so shellfish you can only see you at this time, trouble starts when your boyfriend will ask you to convert and who will decide what religion your children going to take.
To me I would not even dreem of getting married to Muslim and I would say this to Muslim boy too that he should not marry Hindu girl. problem sorted.
you need counciling my dear wake up and listion to your parents they have seen more diwalis then you have.
at the end if you want to commit suiside after marrage then go a head spoil every one day.
please dear think very hard