Jealousy problem

Sun, 2008-10-05 14:43 — fashionista

Could not find a appropriate category. so posted it here.I see a lot of girls come here, so tot someone could help me.

I suffer from jealousy and wanted to know how u girls handle it. My problem is i am engaged to a guy. he works with a very very pretty babe on his team. They are very friendly and all. But i somehow feel very very jealous of her for no apparent reason. When she does better at work, i feel myself crumbling. i somehow cant stand her being very successful . I too am in the same profession as her but different company..

Girls how do u handle this and any tips wud help....

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Thu, 2008-10-09 11:04 — ridhsi
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hey doll dnt wry its called girl nature give some time 2 u watch her bt u dont specify that y u jealous she looks good or she doing same work like with ur hubby????????

Mon, 2008-10-06 22:40 — Anonymous
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hi gals....whtz up???

Mon, 2008-10-06 21:38 — afrada
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hey girl...dont feel horrible yaar.....and being jealous is a complete natural feeling and definitely NOT immature....its ok to feel that way...u wouldnt be normal if u didnt....all the best gal!!! muwahzzz!!

Mon, 2008-10-06 19:29 — Anonymous
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Hey Fashionista--am the same anon from below...good to hear that you spoke to him....as long as you don't sulk....you will be happy....we all have our days you know....so there is absolutely no need to feel horrible about yourself...just keep in mind that your relationship does not have to be the greatest and absolute one in the world..there is no such as that...but it has to be a viable and practical one..and good so see your confidence plunging up the meter....love yourself for who you are but don't take it to the level of arrogance....take care luv.

Mon, 2008-10-06 11:29 — fashionista
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thanks girlies... u made my day. goes to show pinkvilla is not all about gossip:).

yeah, i have talked abt it to my fiance.. i feel horrible abt myself. yeah, i need to not allow jealousy take over me.. i just keep telling myself when those thoughts come, its going to be ok, she being pretty doesnt make me less prettier and my fiance is still with me, and he trusts u...i know i am such an immature thing:(

Sun, 2008-10-05 23:25 — switangel
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Yea fashionista...good to see ppl in PV who r frank. But i gotta say that jealousy aint a problem its only natural to feel jealous for someone who one cares for.

Well all i gotta say is dat gals do get jealous and it somehow overpowers them...and thats shudnt be the case. I have been dating this guy for 5years now and that to a long distant relatonship....and yes he had plenty hot gals around him which could have prolly made me jealous but it was the confidence i have in myself and the trust i have in ma bf that kept our relationship strong...and guess wat we are now engaged and will be getting married in dec:)

Btw if urs is a case of arranged marriage thn i gotta agree with Anonymous Sun, 2008-10-05 19:45, make it clear to your fiance wat things make you insecure. And yea be confident that "U R THE BEST" thats y he is UR fiance and not that gals. I hope u understand what m saying...and the most important thing in a relationship is TRUST!

I wish that u get over the insecure feeling...all the best!!!

Tc

Sanya:)

Sun, 2008-10-05 23:09 — afrada
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agree with anon below...it reaaly is nice that u r not beating around the bush and being completely frank...the best thing to do would be to talk to ur boyfriend..its normal to feel jealous but if u r hurtng emotionally as well then u must talk and discuss this with him...iam pretty sure he would understand...n one more thng..if he wouldnt have loved u...he probably wouldnt be with u....take care gal...hope this helps....all the best!!!!

Sun, 2008-10-05 20:45 — Anonymous
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Hey fashionata--admire ur frankness...it's very normal to feel that way buy there is a difference between just being jealous and being obsessed with it..the best thing is make it clear to your boyfriend wat things make you insecure...there is no wrong in him making friends with a pretty gal...I am in a long distance relationship for 5 yrs now....it only is possible thru trust and a true sense of confidence in ur relationship...

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