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We are beings that within ourselves build certain patters on the basis of which we then act - regardless of everything else. And the more often we exercise them, the more they become embedded within us. Do you know of anyone who once said: "I'll work had for a few years and then just enjoy myself", and he then just couldn't stop working hard ... ever?! This is it ... So don't allow yourself to waste your life in such a way. It's not about money, it's about your attitude to yourself. Once a certain pattern controls you no money in this world can help ...
Do a short and simple exercise: imagine someone standing in front of you. Point your finger at them as if you wanted to say "You are to blame!"
Now take a look at where the other fingers are pointing - one (the thumb) is pointing at God (in to the air), and the remaining three are pointing back at you.
This is the most realistic image when it comes to responsibility in this situation: you are three times more responsible for what is happening to yourself than the person you are speaking with.
Thomas Keller recommends a very simple exercise: take some time and move all the accessories you have in your kitchen closets. Replace the saucers with cups and cups with glasses, etc. Move everything! This is not about whether you need to do this or about "making things look better", but about "breaking your routine".
Your habits and routines are some of the most powerful barriers to achieving success and growing personally!
Break the patterns in your life and prepare for changes! If you can act without getting caught in to something you are doing without a clear reason - but only because you have been doing it practically "forever" - you are going to start moving forward much faster. This is actually the only possibility to really succeed in life ...