Monday Mind Talks: My crush turned down my proposal leaving me feeling rejected; What should I do?

Here's what an expert has to say on battling thoughts of rejection.

Updated on Feb 14, 2022 08:09 PM IST  |  433.8K
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Monday Mind Talks: My crush turned down my proposal leaving me feeling rejected; What should I do?
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My crush turned down my proposal. I am disheartened and feeling rejected. What should I do?

It’s okay to feel bad, disheartened, and upset. That said, it’s also important to not let these feelings haunt you for a long time. Remember not everyone you love will love you back. Accept the other person’s feelings and move on. Don’t hold onto it. As far as the feeling of rejection is concerned, it will go away with time. But for that to happen, you will have to forget what happened. See it with optimism and believe that it was best for you.

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Right after it, my best friend proposed to me. Shall I accept it?

This has to be your personal choice. If you want to give it a try, go ahead. If you need time to cope with the negative feelings that rejection had brought, be upfront about it. However, don’t do it for the sake of it or just because you want to make your crush feel jealous because, in the end, it will be you who would be suffering and no one else. If you feel for your best friend, go about it, if not, tell them politely. To sum it all up, it’s your choice and no one but you should be making the decision. My advice would be to wait for some time before you get into a relationship since the thoughts of rejection might continue to haunt you.

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Inputs by: Pulkit Sharma, a clinical psychologist

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Disclaimer: This column aims to address several mental health problems that people face on a daily basis. While the inputs are given by experts and doctors, it is advisable that you do not solely depend on this piece. It is imperative for you to take this for reference purposes only, and get in touch with a professional for help, and proper treatment. Also, by submitting your query, you give us the permission to fully/partially edit the content for clarity and ease of understanding of our readers.

Also Read: Monday Mind Talks: I am unable to move on from a fresh break-up and have developed anxiety; What should I do?

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better be single than be with the wrong person .