6 dating tips for INTROVERTS that actually work

Introverts have a hard time opening up to people, so dating is far off from their agenda. To make most of your dating life, here are 6 simple dating tips that actually work! Find out more
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First dates are always stressful enough and being n Introvert on top of that just makes the situation worst. For introverts, dates can be panic-inducing as it requires opening up to the other person and clearly they are not good at that! And if you are someone who has been on her fair share of bad dates, here are some dating tips to master your skills.

 

1: PICK SOMETHING SHORT AND FUN:

Introverts get easily exhausted with longer periods of socialising with big groups of people. They like short interactions for a brief period of time. Find out what you like and keep it brief as the space setting also matters.  Ultimately, you want the right combination of time to talk and get to know each other and time to just have fun with one another with little talking. Make sure you know that it is going to be short otherwise you will end up scaring yourself before the date.

2: YOU DO NOT NEED TO HIDE YOUR INTROVERSION:

You may be able to “fake” an outgoingness for a short period of time—especially if you have practised this before. But, over a period of time that is going to fade away. The best way to have a good date is to make t evident that you are an introvert. If your date understands that, you ever know it might even turn into a second/third date.

 

3: DON’T CHANGE ANYTHING:

To start with, do not change your personality or the way you dress. Uncomfortable clothing will only make you more conscious. Don’t buy a pair of shoes or an outfit that isn’t “you.” And don’t get a brand new haircut. Stick to the basics and let your personality shine.

4: LET YOUR EXTROVERT FRIENDS PLAY WINGMAN:

The most difficult thing to do on a date is to start a conversation that both of you are interested in. well, so during this time, let your extroverted friend be your wingman. They will know what to say and when. Also, there’s no harm in seeking help, right?

5: DO NOT OVERTHINK AND START WITH FRIENDSHIP:

Introverts are known to be good friends. Be your usual self and do not overthink unexpected scenarios in your head. Try to be a good friend first and then focus on love. Because love starts with friendship and there's no denying that!

 

6: ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT THE RIGHT PERSON WON’T RUSH YOU:

If you agree to your date that you are an introvert, it will just take the burden of being someone else from your shoulder. This will only make you feel free. There’s is no compulsion of opening up on the very first date, and if you are with the right person, he/she will not push you. Just know that a sincere person will understand you no matter what.

 

What is it that you do before going to dates? Let us know in the comments section below. 

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