6 things to keep in mind while signing up for a matchmaking platform
The virtual world has provided us with several opportunities, ranging from obtaining work to finding love. While this might be advantageous and a significant stepping stone, it is critical to understand how to go about finding whatever you require.
Today, we'll look at what you should know before signing up for a matchmaking site to make the process go smoothly.
Are you someone who has always been unsure what to do next after downloading a matrimonial app? Or someone who thinks to themselves, "What if I'm entirely incorrect and wasting my time?" If so, you'll want to keep reading since you're not alone in this
Details to keep you driven
The most basic, popular and important point one could suggest is to first have your profile details mentioned. Showcasing the authentic you is a big first step close to finding connections. Few examples being:
Fill in the name, height and more correctly.
Fill in a good bio
Partner preferences to be clear yet flexible.
Latest decent picture showing the real you.
Mention location, community and culture.
Your intention of being in matrimony.
Patience to find you the correct partner
Technology sure is fast but it needs the patience to find something so precious and important as love. So don’t start with an expectation of finding connections asap or don’t overthink if it’s not working out as you want initially. Being patient with yourself and your connections will give you a clear headspace and not land into any quick short term relationship.
There is no rush to make decisions, take time, have nice conversations and then go with the flow.
The first move is a smart move
Have you heard people say it’s desperate to make the first move? Well, we say it’s smart and mature to do so since we are all here finding love and our intentions are nowhere wrong.
If you have found genuine profiles and would like to know them, we insist on not playing the “you first” game and go for it. You never know what that first move will lead you to.
Showing genuine interest is never out of fashion.
Keep an open mind to attract the right-minded connection.
Now you don’t want to judge anyone too soon while making a connection. Each individual is different, having different experiences which might seem unusual to you which is absolutely okay unless anything harmful. So keeping an open mind makes you a mature one and know the true nature of someone.
Hence if a match tells you they have never had maggie, they have never been in a relationship or anything like that, let’s try and not judge? :P
Invest your emotions like you would invest money
While this process is emotional and requires you to decide with your heart, it’s sensible to be emotionally intelligent initially. Start by being clear about what you want and set the right expectations.
Interesting conversations lead to interesting connections
Whether you are an extrovert or an introvert, we are all interested in our own ways. Don’t shy away from talking about anything that you seem interested in. Use the chat to ask questions and know the person more. You don’t want to get caught up in “what will he/she think”, be you and as it’s said “If it’s meant to be, it will”
Finally, the “go-to” strategy for this is BE YOU, no matter what you’ll find the one waiting for you.
About the author: Mr. Pawan Gupta- Co-founder & CEO at Betterhalf.ai