8 Reasons why you keep falling for the wrong guy every time

While searching for true love, we often fall for the wrong person and at the end of the relationship, we hurt only ourselves. But do you know why this happens? Read below to find out.
8 Reasons why you keep falling for the wrong guy every time8 Reasons why you keep falling for the wrong guy every time

Women often fall for the wrong guy. Initially, it all seems to be like a dream come true but soon they find that the person is a big flirt. At the end, women land up feeling hurt. Their quest for true love exhausts them and eventually, they start to lose faith in love. This happens because women are comparatively more vulnerable than men.

Women need to zero down why they constantly fall for the wrong guy. They need to make their priorities clear to have a good relationship. So, here we have compiled some factors that are responsible for falling for the wrong person in your life. Check them out below.

Here are the reasons why you get attracted to a wrong person:

1-  You don’t like to be alone at all. Psychologists say, women, who enjoy their own company and love independence, generally don’t fall for the wrong guy easily. This is because they know how to fulfil their life in a better way by themselves.

2-  Apart from finding true love, you don’t have any goal or aim in your life. You still haven’t found your need in life and are still a confused soul. Hence, you tend to rush towards any guy who shows a little affection for you. So, try to find your aim in life and work hard to achieve the goal. This will make you more confident.

3-  Often you can sense that the person on your life is not genuine and he is playing with you. Still, you try to stick to that fake bonding just with the hope that you can finally change him. Eventually, your relationship ends and you feel hurt.

4-  We tend to get attracted to those things that we are familiar with. So, women often end up falling for the same type of person.

5-  You tend to choose men with commitment issues may be because you actually have that fear of commitment. And often people cannot understand that and so they keep rejecting good partners.

6-  You don’t have any goals and priorities when you get in a relationship. You don’t know what do you want from a real bonding and what qualities you are expecting for in your partner.

7-  You feel special when he excites and thrills you. But that doesn’t mean he is the perfect partner for your life.

8-  Ignoring all red flags, you tend to overthink and create new imagination which doesn’t have any connection with the reality.

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Anonymous 3 months ago

Ignoring red flags is the biggest one I would say. Women tend to give benefit of doubt rather than dismissing the person after the first red flag presents itself. Learn to do your due diligence before you agree to date someone exclusively. Know your values, deal breakers, and do "shit tests" to find out whether his words watch his actions. Pay attention to his habits, they reveal one's character. The first test should be to see whether he respect your boundaries. Set a boundary with him early on and if he violates it then run away. They become the "toxic ex" who will stalk you, harass you and will not have a civil breakup. If he does not follow up on texts, does not initiate meet ups, comes late and does not respect your time, he lacks integrity and you will never be his first priority (yes, that is where women ignore this red flag by making excuses for him and giving him benefit of doubt. Everyone is at their phones 24/7. There is no excuse for not answering within an hour.) Most importantly, date with a deadline. If you give him your number, tell him to text you before e.g. 4pm. If you are his priority he will, otherwise he will make excuses and maybe say sorry and still land a date with you (again, don't ignore the red flag by giving benefit of doubt). Set a DEADLINE for yourself. Take charge on each date about what do you want to find out rather "going with the flow".

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