ACTUAL signs that prove you are becoming the person you were ALWAYS meant to be

While you have been through your share of turbulence in life, you finally know who you are becoming. And this time, it is the best version of yourself!
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Have you been feeling different lately? Are there changes in your behaviour and attitude that not only you but even people around you have begun to notice? Then you are on the right path of becoming the person you were always meant to be.

The changes at first might seem a little uncomfortable, but they are not a bad thing. Somewhere deep down, even you find these changes a little liberating as you are finally breaking away from those chains that have held you down for so long.

People in your life may not always be welcoming to these changes but at this crucial point, you need to look at what’s best for you because you’re going to be part of a journey of your lifetime!

You spend a lot of time alone

You take time off to focus on your goals and what is important to you in life. This is a sign that you have matured. Many times, this involves spending lesser time socialising or participating in activities that don’t interest you. But at the end of the day, you are satisfied with the time you spend more productively with yourself.

You cut off relationships

Spending less time with others is sure to have some effects. If the people you usually surround yourself with are okay with spending lesser time with and understand your thought process, there’s nothing better. This way you come to understand which relationship is deep and meaningful and which relationship is toxic and unhealthy. When you realise this, its not that hard to cut it off.

You understand your issues

By spending more time with yourself, you are bound to get to know yourself better. You will figure out your problem areas and your issues and find out suitable ways to fix them to become the best version of yourself.

You don’t regret the past

Unlike most others who constantly talk about how they wish they can change the past to create something better, you already know better. Which is why you analyse and understand every bad situation from the past and make it  a point to make sure it doesn’t happen again.

You value time - yours and every else's

You tend to ask several questions before deciding whether or not to invest time and your energy on something or somebody. Since you know what you want in life, you also understand that every minute counts. Which is why it is important to you that you don’t spend too much time on trivial things, and focus on your goals instead.

You surround yourself with people who matter

They may not be your best friends and you may not hang out with them every week, but when you do, it is enriching. You don’t indulge in gossip of any kind and only focus on each other’s lives.

You are anxious but confident about your future

You may be going through some issues but that does not mean you don’t know what your goals are. You are anxious about getting there, which is completely normal. But at the end of the day, you have well established goals and a basic idea of how to get there. 

Do you have any more to add to the list? Comment below and let us know. 

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