Happy Friendship Day 2018: Quotes and signs that prove that your friend is now your BFF

Friendship’s Day is celebrated on the 1st Sunday of August every year
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Friendship? How does one define this bond? When does one realise that your colleague or acquaintance is becoming your close friend? Ever wondered what is this change that draws you towards them that they become the special someone beyond blood relations? In fact, your mood too depends on them. It’s because this one person is an extension of who you are. They embody your second heart which beats outside of you, in them. They are a pellucid reflection of who you are. That stroke of colour which lifts up your black and white painting on your larger than life canvas. That lustrous and polished mirror which hides the tattered back; it is then when you know for sure that this person is your BFF!


With everyone constantly weighing love and friendship, with many choosing love over the latter, it just pushes me to think - how can love ever take shape without the foundation of pure friendship? Because honestly, the love of your life is actually a by-product of friendship, and that your best friend could be your soulmate too!  Having said that, lets clear the air once and for all that your ultimate soulmate can be your girl/guy BFF too. It need not always have to be the opposite gender. You become soulmates when you sense the other person’s heartbeats without even saying a word. You’ll become inseparable when you stand like a pillar holding the other from falling. You know you have found your best friend when sitting and crying together is therapy too.

With it being friendship’s day today, here’s to friends who become family and our chosen family! Listed below are times when you realise that your friend has actually become your best friend.

 


1. When he/she treats your place as their own that they practically live out of your house. So stuffed at your place, that neighbours ask your parents if they’ve adopted another child.
I’m sure we’ve all gone through this. Of course we know of the times when we are not home and our best friend is getting pampered by our parents. When mommy dearest knows our best friend’s favourite dish and they actually take efforts to specially cook for them. Your friend has literally taken over your place when you find their stuff, clothes, books lying in your room. And do you’ll know of the times when they complaint about us and our habits to our own parents *major eye roll*. Yes that! If this happens to you then, my friend, your monstrous friend has been promoted to now being your best friend.

2. When he/she gets extremely jealous of you talking or getting close to someone else.
Another instance which I’m sure all of us will relate to. Remember the times when your best friend gets all possessive and is in absolutely no mood to share you? When they start hating the person you’re chatting up with more than them? Does this happen to you? If yes is the answer, then this adorable jealousy has got them the position of being your best friend.

 


3. When he/she becomes your 4 am friend just to check if you’re alright and not sobbing over your issues at work or because of your terrible heartbreak.
It’s that moment when it hits you like a lightning bolt that your pain is not your pain alone and that they’re going through it with you all along. They try to show you positivity in a world which has crashed down. They bring back life in your eyes when your lenses have blurred out. They make you believe that all is not over so as your faith in goodness stays intact. For this very reason you know that no matter who comes and leaves, this soul is always going to have your back.

4. When you’ll share clothes and basically your life together
They pretty much assume that your closet is theirs. Let alone the closet, your earpods too are no longer yours! When not a day goes by without talking to them for hours on the phone. Its then when you know that trouble’s for real and your best friend basically owns everything that you do - even your life, but hey we don’t mind that.

 


5. When they become your living therapy
We often take for granted how much a person can mean to us and how devastated and numb we’ll be without them. After a bad meeting at work, it’s your BFF who is on your speed dial! Its when you can throw a fit and go all crazy because you know that they’ll always be there for you. Its then my friend, when you flash your hearty smile and realise that this douchebag is your best friend.

With so many handy realisations, I suggest you run and give your best friend a tight bone crushing hug and if unfortunately your best friend stays overseas like mine (same pinch :()  then just pour your heart out and type them an unfiltered message telling them how much you miss them.

 

Also, if articulating your feelings is a major problem then we’ve listed down some really special Friendship’s day quotes and messages which will make your life easier.

 

 

Listed below are quotes that will melt your hearts immediately and will make you want to run and give a tight hug to your best friend squad.

 

"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."

 

"A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart, and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words."

 

"A friend is one who believes in you when you have ceased to believe in yourself."

 

"A hug is worth a thousand words. A friend is worth more."

 

"I might give my life for my friend, but he had better not ask me to do up a parcel."

 

"The love of my life is the love between friends."

 

"A friend is someone who knows all about you and loves you anyway!!!"

 

"Friendship is like a perennial river which flows forever. It may change it's path but will never ever dry up."

 

"There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship."

 

"Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light."


While I go and type my wish for my BFF, do comment and tag your friend below and tell them how much you love them. Happy Friendship’s Day!

 

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