Relationship Advice: THESE are the signs that you are in an unhealthy relationship

You might be getting exploited in a relationship and are unaware of it. Sometimes it’s just difficult to understand what’s going wrong. Here are the red flags you need to look out for.
Relationship Advice: THESE are the signs that you are in an unhealthy relationship Relationship Advice: THESE are the signs that you are in an unhealthy relationship
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A relationship can be very fulfilling and amazing. It feels great to have someone who loves you immensely and can walk the extra mile to make you feel loved. But is your relationship a healthy one? How do you know that your relationship hasn’t crossed over and become toxic? It’s not always easy to tell that your relationship has turned sour and unhealthy. It’s important to understand if it’s time for you to end a relationship before it damages you and your mental health. You cannot justify oppressive behaviour for the rest of your life.

Overlooking the signs of exploitation may make your life much more difficult in the long run. It’s important to look out for red flags and relationship deal breakers and gets out of it while you still can. Here are the signs to keep an eye out for.

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1. Unapologetic and judgemental behaviour

Your partner refuses to apologise for anything that they do. They refuse to accept their mistakes at all and always guilt-trip you. They are judgemental and judge everyone around them and close to them for every little thing. They also judge you for your past or your present and refuse to keep a tab on their attitude. 

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2. Disrespectful behaviour

They are disrespectful towards people. They disrespect you and their own family too. They find it difficult to respect people but always demand respect from everyone.


3. Controlling and abusive behaviour

They always question everything you do and want control in your life. They want details of everything you do and everywhere you go and want to have a say in what you wear and who you are friends with. They control your life but refuse to give you much access or control of their lives. They want access to all your social media accounts but aren’t comfortable in reciprocating. They are abusive towards you and push you around and do not trust you at all. They abuse you physically and mentally and push your boundaries with their “innocent” behaviour. They make you feel bad about yourself and you end up with low self-esteem because of them.

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4. Secretive

Your partner is secretive about their present and their past and keep their lives a secret from you. They refuse to divulge any details about their lives. 


5. Lack of work ethic

Your partner does not have any professionalism or work ethic. They don’t respect their work or their boss or colleagues. They constantly change jobs and are unsatisfied with their workplace. This is a sign that they cannot sustain a job in the long run.

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