THESE are the 5 things to keep in mind before getting back with your ex
Giving your former lover a second chance? Keep these crucial things in mind before jumping back into the relationship.
You have broken up with them, but still, there is this long lost love left between the two of you. There is this desire to give them a second chance and it is definitely easier than swiping left on random people. You both know each other, get each other and have that comfort level.
We all crave companionship and at times it can be quite tempting to get back together with someone who already knows us and our idiosyncrasies. Here are some things to consider while getting back together with your ex.
Be sure that you can trust them
Think about how you two were in the past and if there were any trust issues, then address them and discuss them with your ex beforehand.
Leave the past behind
Forget about your previous relationship with them and start afresh. Avoid bringing the past grudges into the new relationship.
Don’t repeat the same mistakes
Don’t repeat the same mistakes that led to your breakup. Keep in the mind the things you two had a difference of opinion on, and try to avoid the conflicts this time.
Assess your current equation
Whether you two are just friends or still have feelings for each other, address and acknowledge it before getting back together.
Ask your friends and family
Your friends and family have probably seen you with them and how you were. Ask them whether you should date them again or not to get an objective opinion.