Are you falling in love with your best friend? HERE's why dating your bestie is not a good idea

Do you have a crush on your best friend and are you planning to ask him on a date? Read below to find out why dating your best friend is never a good idea and how you can lose your best friend in that case.
Are you falling in love with your best friend? HERE's why dating your bestie is not a good ideaAre you falling in love with your best friend? HERE's why dating your bestie is not a good idea
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When it comes to relationships, they can be tricky at times. Be it a relationship with your boyfriend, best friend, or with your family, every relationship has its own rules, and there's one thing that separates each of these relationships from each other. And that thing is understanding. Understanding differs from person to person and from relationship to relationship.  

 

Especially, when it comes to your male bestie, you need to be extra careful, since developing feelings for him is not difficult, and can happen with time. If you already have some feelings for your male bestie and are planning to turn your friendship into a relationship, then trust me that ain't a good idea. The friend-zone is very real, and sometimes very necessary. Read below to find out why dating your bestie is not a good option. 

 

You wouldn't want to ruin the friendship:

 

There's one thing about having a best friend, and there's one thing about having a best friend who is also your boyfriend. Sometimes, relationships don't work out well, and things end on a sad note. And if you are dating your bestie, then you'll not only lose a boyfriend but will also lose your best friend. 

 

They know you in and out:

 

When it comes to our best friends, they usually know everything about us. Our dating history, our likes and dislikes. So, if you start dating your best friend, you'll not get benefit of the doubt, since he knows everything, so you can never hide something from him. 

 

Best friend and boyfriend are different:

 

Best friend compatibility is different than partner compatibility. And sometimes, when you start dating your boyfriend, you assume the friendship compatibility will automatically cross over to the partner compatibility, but that's not always the case. 

 

A friend loves you unconditionally:

 

Friendship over relationship always. Even when you don’t want to be loved, even when you don’t feel like you should, they will be there for you always and forever and ever until the end of time because they are your best friend. But when it comes to boyfriend, that's certainly not the case always.

 

They know how weird you are:

 

Your best friend knows how weird you are and appreciates your weirdness at times. But when it comes to boyfriend, you'll try to hide your weirdness, and that'll make both of you uncomfortable.

 

Who'll be the new best friend:

 

If you date your best friend, who will be your new best friend? Now that your best friend is your lover, who are you going to go to at 2 AM when you and your partner get in your first fight? You’ll think of going to your boyfriend about everything, but you’ll quickly realize that you still need a best friend.

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