Why is Ranbir Kapoor always blamed for his past failed relationships?

I don’t understand why is Ranbir always bashed for dating any actress in Bollywood and after the breakup, it always seems to be his fault for the relationship ending. First, with Deepika, he was blamed for having dumped her but Deepika herself confessed that they weren’t compatible together plus in Koffee with Karan she also said how she didn’t have any friends and her life fully revolved around Ranbir and his friends. Isn’t that a little toxic? Even Katrina on Koffee with Karan spoke about how when she was in a relationship she thought she should get married at a certain age or that was the end of it. So clearly Ranbir isn’t the one to be blamed for everything wrong with his past failed relationships. What do you guys think about this?