What prompted Kristin Cavallari's bold decision to cut her dad out of her life?

“It's been the best decision I ever made,” said Kristin Cavallari on cutting all ties with his narcissistic father on Let’s Be Honest podcast

Updated on Dec 22, 2023  |  02:12 PM IST |  107K
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Family dynamics can be complex, even for celebrities, Kristin Cavallari, known for her time on Laguna Beach, recently shared a significant decision she made a couple of years ago cutting her father out of her life. In a heartfelt revelation on her podcast, Let’s Be Honest, she unveiled the reasons behind this bold move, shedding light on a strained relationship that took an unexpected turn. Let’s delve into the details of what prompted Kristin Cavallari’s courageous decision.  

Discovering a narcissistic past

Kristin disclosed that it wasn’t until adulthood that she realized her father’s behavior was narcissistic. As a youngster, she sensed she didn’t want to be around him because he made her feel inadequate. The emotional rollercoaster of being both criticized and idealized by her father became clearer with time.  

“I stopped talking to my dad about two years ago, and it's been the best decision I ever made," Kristin Cavallari shared on her podcast, Let's Be Honest. When she was younger, she never wanted to be around him because he made her feel like she “wasn't good enough, but sometimes he'd act like I was the best thing ever, he was a narcissistic man” she added. “Now that I'm grown up, I realize it was only when it benefited him and made him look good.”

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The turning point arrived when her father did something that involved her three children. Kristin, a mother to Saylor, Camden, and Jaxon, decided she had to draw a line. The incident crossed a personal boundary, prompting her to take a stand. She expressed, “I was like, I can take it…I can take the abuse. I have my whole life. But it’s like when you start messing with my kids, I am not doing it.”

Kristin’s courageous decision wasn’t without challenges. After severing ties, her father responded by blaming her and throwing everything back in her face. This painful aftermath emphasizes the complexities involved in making such personal choices, especially when they involve family.

Reality TV and parenthood

In a separate discussion on The Jennifer Hudson Show, Kristen shared her perspective on her children entering the world of reality TV. With a protective stance, she asserted that until they turn 18, she wants them to focus on being kids. The challenges of navigating public scrutiny and the entertainment industry are something she prefers they tackle later in life.

Fans flooded the comments section, praising Kristin for her relatability and expressing solidarity. Many shared their own experiences of making tough decisions for the sake of their well-being and that of their children. Kristen’s openness resonated with those who faced similar family struggles.

Reflections on the family ties

The bold move comes amid Kristen’s reflections on her family’s history, particularly after the tragic death of her brother, Michael Cavallari, in 2015. Sometimes, events in the past affect how we feel about our family now. It's a bit like untangling a knot of feelings and memories to understand how things got to where they are. In Kristin's case, it's like looking at a family photo album and realizing how different things are now compared to before. Family stuff can be tricky, right?

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